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[gessatrude]

comments from out of left field. Why do I say things like that and hit send before I think?  The following is accurate, out of order, and summarized from several messages.  But it conveys the gist of how I got to the statement of doom.

T: He's not back from NC yet?  (Talking about J)

Me: Nope.  Haven't talked to him in 3 days, only talked to him via

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[pjvj]

>>>figure if i was going to have to sleep alone, i might as well do it where i belonged <<<

The bold part is *golden*.

[gessatrude]

I was feeling quite snarky last night. Mostly because I was getting worried that J was overdue to be home by at least a day with no word from him (he called me finally at 1 this morning, but I was already in bed), and I was mildly annoyed at T's "surprise" that I would deign to sleep in my own bed.

So even though he didn't say "where you belong" I kinda felt like he was implying it. Hence the snark.

Ah well. Such is life.

[pjvj]

Sometimes you just gotta snark. And if you happen to catch someone else in the snark who deserves it because of having deliberately gone against certain relationship rules, well then boo-fucking-hoo for them.

[gessatrude]

true enough. :)