The final fucking straw....

[fyrekaaat]

Tiger-boy is fucking sexist.He thinks all the chores in the house should be done by mom, he thinks that he should be allowed to cuss, hit, yell at, and generaly abuse me, duckling, mischief, mom AND ladybug without getting into trouble and that he should be allowed to sleep in all day and stay up at all hours of the night and basically act like

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[dancing_star]

Oh sweetie I'm not mad at you for this post at all. I can understand where your coming from.

[thats_ms_dragon]

I agree that he has changed in the last few years. I agree that we do not always discipline him the way you would like us to. I know that you have your own situations that you have been dealing with or ignoring as the case may be. This is why teenagers aren't allowed to parent their siblings.

I know that you are frustrated and feel like he is getting away with everything. I am sorry you feel that way.

I will be happy to discuss with you how you would like me to interact with you in a less public forum. I will not be bullied into treating your siblings in the way you would like for me to. That is not what I allow my children to do. I do want to help you take more control of yourself and your situations, whether they include or not your brother.

I love you.

[anonymous]

*gentle hugs* I'm not going to offer your parenting words of wisdom. I'm simply going to offer you sympathy. I didn't grow up with siblings but my understanding from those that did is that the relations are never easy. I hope you and your parents will be able to work together to help you all find solutions. *more hugs*

[deedeebythebay]

oops, that was me

[lokiz_mom]

in my opinion it is especially difficult to be the eldest of any family. i'm the youngest of 2 girls and i see the crap that my older sister had to go through.

**hugs** hopefully this will start a conversation between everyone in the house. it's good that you have a place to vent your feelings instead of taking them out on someone else. it's not an easy place to be in, but you are a strong woman and you will learn how to work through it. you have a great family and loving parents. you have my number if you ever want to call me.

~J~

[angelique69]

I hope things improve drastically. *HUGS* You and yours are in my thoughts and prayers. Blessed Be, Angelique

[branwynlynn]

I used to beat my younger brother up when we fought until one day he threw me against a bedroom door so hard that I lost my breath. After that, I found a way to make nice with him pretty much most of the time. We both remember that day well. He says that my eyes opened wide with shock when that happened. I remember telling myself that I would treat him with more respect after that. I'm not advocating physically hurting anyone, I'm just saying that sibling relationships are difficult and you should try to treat your brother with respect in all your interactions and maybe you'll get the same in return.