Dead Mom or Dead Parent Club

[furious_mold]

That's how I see myself these days. A member of the Dead Mom or Dead Parent Club.

It's the worst club. You have so many questions that will never have answers. You get  well-meaning people telling you how to feel or what is "worse" and the only thing you can do to prevent yourself from punching them is to remind yourself that they went through it

Comments

[dabroots]

I don't think I've talked much to people about my father being dead, although he has been since I was 17, so that was 43 years ago. I didn't talk about it much even in the months or years after he died. I wish there had been more about him that I liked.

[ratphooey]

It is indeed a crappy club. I'm sorry you've joined me in it.

[ellettra]

<3 Sending love your way.