Well I envy your outlook on the initial question lol, because you really are in a good place emotionally and mentally in your relationship. In my last relationship, she compared me to her ex constantly and quite forwardly. It was torture and the final knife through my back was when I realized she still had feelings for her ex and I was just some guy she tried because I had characteristics her ex didn't have. It all still stings and I think I could do without hearing about exes.