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io2012 in ftm

Total newbie.

Apr 13, 2011 23:26

So....I don't really know where to begin. And I thought this community might be able to help ( Read more... )

transition process, introductions

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bentboi25 April 14 2011, 03:35:59 UTC

http://www.queertransmen.org/

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sneakersjay April 14 2011, 05:18:37 UTC

This. Took me about a year into transition to admit i was gay. But only ever dated men and had sex with men prior to transition; never interested in women sexually, never identified as a lesbian.

Nothing wrong with being gay!

Does take time to sort it all out.

raid_iink April 14 2011, 06:38:33 UTC

Here's another gay guy chiming in that being a guy and being gay are non-exclusive. I also want to add that my gender doesn't have anything to do with me liking men. For me it's not a matter of wanting-to-be/wishing-to-be male but rather a matter of me being male and having a non-standard male body. I'm a guy who's exclusively attracted to other guys ergo I'm gay ( ... )

io2012 April 14 2011, 20:27:09 UTC

Thanks for all the resources! I am starting to wade through them and have made some notes already. The idea of gender and sexuality being separate shouldn't be so radical to me, but it is. Not to mention intoxicatingly liberating....