*huge hugs* *sniffles* *tight hugs* Not for a bit, it won't... well, it will shift it. Less of the limbo and emotional whiplash, and more of the constant buffering and emotional duct-taping, which I concede is easier. Kind of like I was telling Blain a week or so ago - knowing is *always* better, and this is rather the ultimate in knowing how things are with her. :-S The main pressure release in this, for *me*, now that I think about it... is all the phone calls I *won't* have to make to update people. There's still a few people I need to reach (tried to phone you last night, I swear I did...) who I couldn't get hold of last night, and then there will be the waves of calls for funeral service notifications... (I hope it's not Saturday, having a wedding reception and funeral in the same day would so suck...) but, you know... once we get through that point, it will be easier, less pressured. wow, the light at the end of the tunnel is NOT an oncoming train! =) *hugs*
I'm sorry, but relieved that it's over. Sorry and relieved. Sending thoughts of strength your way so you can help hold up those around you. I mean, you do that anyhow, but I suspect you'll need a little extra something. Keep some to keep yourself standing as long as you have to. I'm thinking of you...
*hugs* thanks! yeah, will hold everyone else up as best I can, but having a bit extra in the locker right now would be good. Mostly, I'm sorry it had to be this way. But since it did - I still hate it, but I'm glad it's resolved without a serious loss of dignity for her, or waves of pain.
And right now - I'm not sure if I want more to cry, to sleep, or the "phone a friend" option... and somehow, I can't quite do any of the three right now. *sigh*
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*sniffles*
*tight hugs*
Not for a bit, it won't... well, it will shift it. Less of the limbo and emotional whiplash, and more of the constant buffering and emotional duct-taping, which I concede is easier. Kind of like I was telling Blain a week or so ago - knowing is *always* better, and this is rather the ultimate in knowing how things are with her. :-S
The main pressure release in this, for *me*, now that I think about it... is all the phone calls I *won't* have to make to update people. There's still a few people I need to reach (tried to phone you last night, I swear I did...) who I couldn't get hold of last night, and then there will be the waves of calls for funeral service notifications... (I hope it's not Saturday, having a wedding reception and funeral in the same day would so suck...) but, you know... once we get through that point, it will be easier, less pressured.
wow, the light at the end of the tunnel is NOT an oncoming train! =)
*hugs*
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And right now - I'm not sure if I want more to cry, to sleep, or the "phone a friend" option... and somehow, I can't quite do any of the three right now. *sigh*
*hugs* thank you.
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