Serious.

[freckled_aries]

Wow. Another update so soon. oops XD
So everything has been lovely, as said a few days ago, but things have happened that kiinda make me really confused. So Advice would be very cherished on this one ;3
I've been hanging out with Justin regularly, like usual. & Lately I've found that I've been loosening up around him, which is an awesome thing. But

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[nyxera]

Okay, this is probably the one place where we differ. See, I have the serious side more than the fun side when I'm with a guy. So seeing this from his view, he's 13 years older. He's probably been through the playful stuff before and maybe his taste has changed a bit.
I had someone once who was always playful and that was fine, but DON'T ever just have a breakdown. It's a total turn-off.
And if you're clingy, be careful! Shit's scary, sorry. It really is.

Basically, pick and choose your moments of when to be playful and when to be serious. Especially when you're alone. Too much of a good thing isn't a good thing, ya know? Don't give him too much sugar, give him some spice and a side of bitter if he's really being a stick in the mud. Of course I don't mean be a bitch when I say "bitter", just.. srs bsn, yo.

[freckled_aries]

oOooo I like your advice a lot >3
Definitely have learned that being clingy is worthless long ago, thank GOD XD worst lesson to learn ever >> XD
But yess, I love your sugar, spice, and bitterness reference, really gives it a whole new perspective for me that makes it seem easier to take on >3
You rock, thank you for your awesome advice! :D
It sucks when being too nice is a bad thing tho >> XD bahah oh Scorpiosss ;D XD CHALLAAAAANGE XD

[nyxera]

I try to make things as simple as possible cause I gotta organize my own complexities. Might well make it easy for everyone else to understand while I'm at it, right? xD

Oh hell.. you didn't tell me your guy's a scorpio. You're gonna have a lotta fun with that one, at least in bed~ ;3 The rest.. good luck sorting that shit out, haha. Let me know if there's anything else on your mind. I'm always here for ya :P

[freckled_aries]

yayyy you rock x3 I'm here for you too if you need anyone to talk to about thingss! :D my ears/eyes are always open for ya ;P