You're exactly right. I guess you already know how I feel, but being in a relationship changes the 'friendly' boundaries with other people of the opposite sex. Hugging, cuddling, etc, becomes a lot more intimate. Maybe you can just get him to think about how he'd feel if you did the same-he shouldn't do things he wouldn't want you to do, and if you're willing to afford him that sort of respect, he should do the same. ::hug::
I was in the same situation, sort of. At first I ignored it. Then my boyfriend got into flirting back with her. Then I told him how I felt. He told me I should talk to her (claiming he wasn't flirting, just being nice - "returning the gesture"). Haha, I may have been younger than him, but I knew what flirting looked like! Told her, that didn't work, so I had him tell her I was uncomfortable. That didn't work. They got pretty close, he stopped talking to her for a week (as far as I know). It didn't work so I asked him to choose me or her. And he said he couldn't do that. So I stopped going to ISH all together so I wouldn't have to see them all over each other (ignoring it all over again). Then we broke up and they hooked up immediately and lasted all of a week. Men. Then I heard from her sister that she had caught them "together" when we were still dating.
So. Basically, I don't think you're out of line and hopefully your boyfriend will understand how you feel and think of something "peaceful" to make it all better...I wish you luck!
I told him and he seemed very understanding so we'll see. See, the problem is she keeps calling him "man meat." If you look at his myspace you'll see her comments to him that irk me. The second and most recent one is the one that royally pisses me off. It says "where the FUCK is my manmeat?" I almost hunted her down and cut her right there.
Honestly, I don't think he'd cheat. It's this complete lack of respect toward me that pisses me off. He's MINE and NOBODY else's. I'm definitely becoming territorial. I'm trying my best not to hate her, but I know I'm going to be pissy if they ever go to hang out (knowing that a bunch of flirting and sexual innuendo will probably be involved). I'm trying to deal, but it doesn't help my urge to want to slap the bitch.
Yeah, those are very common emotions to bitches who lack respect to the girlfriends. "The Rachel" at Studio refuses to acknowledge my existance and the way she talks and gets close right in front of me make me want to break every bone in her body. Cory usually gets the hint and has us leave the room.
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So. Basically, I don't think you're out of line and hopefully your boyfriend will understand how you feel and think of something "peaceful" to make it all better...I wish you luck!
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I really do hope the whole thing just works out. I mean Rob seems like a spectacular guy - and the whole thing should just work out.
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Honestly, I don't think he'd cheat. It's this complete lack of respect toward me that pisses me off. He's MINE and NOBODY else's. I'm definitely becoming territorial. I'm trying my best not to hate her, but I know I'm going to be pissy if they ever go to hang out (knowing that a bunch of flirting and sexual innuendo will probably be involved). I'm trying to deal, but it doesn't help my urge to want to slap the bitch.
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