Comments | flossums: Not what you'd call 'in-depth'

flossums

Not what you'd call 'in-depth'

Mar 19, 2007 18:34

So, talking about preferred contact methods when you're trying to work out if someone is interested in you...

Poll The Chase

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rainbow_sleeve March 19 2007, 10:00:36 UTC

And sweetheart? I want updates too - even if you have to call me to give them to me! LOL!

flossums March 19 2007, 11:18:20 UTC

LOL. Will do. Assuming there is ever anything to update :P

zenni March 19 2007, 10:26:15 UTC

I don't know if you can work anything like that out through SMS. Because you can't sense tones in a message.

flowershoes March 19 2007, 10:30:00 UTC

But you can totally flirt in text messages and be...cruder than you could if you were speaking to them over the phone :D

flossums March 19 2007, 11:19:48 UTC

Not from that angle...but like, first contact. If I give a guy my number and he calls me, my first reaction is, 'well, huh. He is interested.' Maybe because it's easier if you're just texting? I don't know.

I dunno know.... sly_cult_race March 19 2007, 11:51:08 UTC

Calling gets me flustered. If a guy called me Id
A)Be like 'OMG overly interested'
B)Have no idea what to say
C)Think Ive made a total arse of myself, and therefore stop liking him, because he would totally no longer be interested in me now, obviously.

At least I know I can delete stuff when I write a text :D And I can think about suggestive replies, rather than just blurting them out in an attempt to be sexy.

Plus, I have a thing about not liking phone calls, coz you're forced to keep up a conversation.

Messenger is good though. When Sean was away in the states, we emailed, but mostly chatted online, you can get upto all sorts then ...and its a combo between talking and texting, in a way.

Eh, long winded.

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