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Oct 29, 2008 19:59

The other night I was riding in a car coming back to Bloomington after playing a show in Indianapolis. My friend a_diversion was also in the car, and put her head on my shoulder to go to sleep. It made me think about how much I crave physical contact with other people. Not only has it been awhile since I've been in a relationship, but all of my really close ( Read more... )

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this is all i think about! hlkp October 30 2008, 11:30:53 UTC

oh, i think you're wrong. just because a girl (or a guy) says that they've been going through some rough shit and don't want to date doesn't mean they aren't into you. i know this because i have said this to people that i very badly want to date, but can't because they wouldn't be getting the full deal. in fact, this is what i tell dudes now. well, minus the bad relationship part. i tell them at the beginning of any sort of "relationship" we might be having. there's always the unfortunate, awkward sit-down wherein i have to lay it on the line that i don't like the idea of having a boyfriend. that i'm my first priority and i'd like to keep it that way ( ... )

Re: this is all i think about! tinyfolk October 30 2008, 14:33:31 UTC

agree on all counts.

Re: this is all i think about! flamingtiki October 31 2008, 16:57:00 UTC

I've been getting varying advice from all sorts of girls. The main thing I've been telling myself is that it will happen when it happens. I'm trying not to get too worked up about it.

Thanks.

Re: this is all i think about! rainbleu October 31 2008, 23:25:50 UTC

It just all depends. Like right now I'm going through the hardest time and the last thing I should do is get involved in somebody, but I DO want to be in a relationship. I just shouldn't because it would be bad for me. So some girls know that it really doesn't fit in their life at the moment or are too emotionally drained from a break up; it doesn't mean they're not into you.

I miss youuuuu call me sometime

kaiser_phoenix October 31 2008, 02:02:41 UTC

Each woman is a completly different situation than any other woman. Good luck with yours. I am kind of going through the same deal. If it was a good time we'd probably be dating. But its not. Then again, there can always be an excuse. Hopefully she figures out what she wants/needs. Or you just cement a friendship. Who knows?

I miss the small physical contact myself. Holding hands, hugging, all that silly stuff.