I personally feel that the world becomes a better place (even if it's only a tad more) when anyone has such a fantastic experience. I think it's doubly true when you (or anyone else) has such a magical (how else can you describe such an amazing thing?!!?!!!) experience! Now go do it again!
Wow! I'm smiling as I type... thanks for such awesome words! Yes, it definitely was magical... and I really do hope that it's the sort of thing other people have a chance to enjoy.
I really think that reading erotica, watching positive porn, and talking to other people about sexuality in general has really helped me discover more about myself and what I like. Having an INCREDIBLE boyfriend who loves me so much, and accepts everything about me, makes it possible to EXPERIENCE all the things I've only dreamed about.
I really love your perspective, and I really appreciate you commenting. Would you mind if I added you as a friend?? =-)
given that i can become very quickly aroused to the point it feels like i could go off any minute, it's always been a little dissapointing to have the distractbility/focus thing tend to put me in the first sentence of this post pretty solidly. nice to come across this post because i've been following up on a suggestion from the Babes In Toyland (here in Seattle) folks wrt the vast potential of taking the kegel thing as far as one wants to fly, to paraphrase the essense of it :) so one of the bright ideas i got (might have the $ together to get myself the famous barbell for my birthday :) was to use trying to get off via/clenching as exercise. it's a pretty compelling carrot to chase, so thanks for giving that particular endeavor some extra suspension-of-disbelief durability & oomph :)
And omg... I've discovered that really workin' those muscles can provide some extraordinary experiences for my boyfriend, as well. Alternating between clenching and pushing, if you will, or imagining and affecting a rippling/wave-like clench feels unbelievable for both of us!
Indeed, alternating the type of clenching is great, even when alone. I've gotten to a point where clenching in certain ways sends pre-orgasmic shivers through my body and makes me wanna finish off with a vibrator. That's not always convenient of course.... but if I can get to the self-induced, purely-muscular level again... WOAH!
Still, I think a lot of what happened during the incident I posted was psychological. Since you say you're almost always ready to go, you're probably miles ahead ;-)
Random commenting is always appreciated by me! In fact, that's precisely why I leave my posts public =-) Thanks for your awesome feedback, and please do add me!!
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I really think that reading erotica, watching positive porn, and talking to other people about sexuality in general has really helped me discover more about myself and what I like. Having an INCREDIBLE boyfriend who loves me so much, and accepts everything about me, makes it possible to EXPERIENCE all the things I've only dreamed about.
I really love your perspective, and I really appreciate you commenting. Would you mind if I added you as a friend?? =-)
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And omg... I've discovered that really workin' those muscles can provide some extraordinary experiences for my boyfriend, as well. Alternating between clenching and pushing, if you will, or imagining and affecting a rippling/wave-like clench feels unbelievable for both of us!
Indeed, alternating the type of clenching is great, even when alone. I've gotten to a point where clenching in certain ways sends pre-orgasmic shivers through my body and makes me wanna finish off with a vibrator. That's not always convenient of course.... but if I can get to the self-induced, purely-muscular level again... WOAH!
Still, I think a lot of what happened during the incident I posted was psychological. Since you say you're almost always ready to go, you're probably miles ahead ;-)
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Sorry for the random commenting, but I was journal-hopping and found this... I'd like to add you if you don't mind.
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Random commenting is always appreciated by me! In fact, that's precisely why I leave my posts public =-) Thanks for your awesome feedback, and please do add me!!
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