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[feri_hearted]

so a lot of things have been going on some overwhelming some not so much. I will write more later maybe. But what I am really excited about is today is the day the "Aqua Teen Hunger Force Colon Movie for Theaters" is coming out on DVD. YEAH!!!!!!!!!

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[ayufandom]

Oh hell yes. I'm just as excited. :)

[ayufandom]

I've never really worked on the boundary thing before. There was this period in my life where I'd do anything for anybody and get walked all over for it. Then when I hit high school I went through this stage where I'd be assertive but then I went right back to where I was before. That's when I decided that if I didn't want to be used then not to associate with alot of people. That has resulted with me not really talking to anyone except for instructors, classmates(which is rare), and like three people in my family. I have lost contact with my offline friends(including Hilary).

The situation with Kristopher is the most severe this has ever gotten.

I guess I could bring this up on Monday in my first DBT(Dialectic Behavioural Therapy) meeting. I donno..But for now I'm taking a break from Kris. I don't even know if I ever want to talk to him again at this point..

[feri_hearted]

Taking breaks is healthy and maybe you should bring it up looking at boundaries is so good for self work, so healthy. Yet it is also so very hard to do as well. For those of us who come from families who did not have boundaries or who had fake ones building them up feels mean and harsh when really its not at all. Its all about taking care of you first and others second and honestly we take care of others better when we take care of ourselves.