Patriarchy doesn't go away that quickly- it has survived centuries by keeping its "others" ignorantly deviant through hegemony- "consensual" oppression. Don't be fooled into thinking we're free
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While I don't think the war is won by any means I think things like the Dove Ads and Sex in the City show progress. If equality never becomes mainstream then we lose. The whole point is to make it the norm, isn't it?
"and you can't make it stop, and sometimes you wish you could be blissfully ignorant like so many others seem to be, and yet you are grateful you are not, most of the time, because you understand that you often need to sacrifice contentment for awareness"
well said. It's hard when your eyes are opened to something, because you can't undo that. But when you really think about it, it's far better to walk through the world with open eyes than to stumble around blindly or be lead by someone else.
Especially your last paragraph - I know exactly how you feel. Once you see one lie, you recognize how the patriarchy is just a giant facade created by those interlinking messages and institutions.
Sometimes I feel just extremely paranoid, like I'm just being radical and creating this entire conspiracy theory in my head - but it runs. so. deep.
It's great to know that someone out there is being as critical as I am, questioning everything, and seeing how it all relates to what you already know are lies and constructions.
It can still be conspiracy theory even if you know it is wrong. For example, people are raised, often, to believe that what they're doing is normal and fine. They aren't necessarily doing it to conspire against you and I and the men who grow up to be told to be like them and the people in urban cultures who flock to stores to buy things they can't afford just to be as cool as the people who coudln't afford those same things before they got a record contract and a clothing line. It's not necessarily conspiracy. It's just not looking at everything fluidly or questioning things themselves, often times
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"the revolution will not be televised. instead it will be analyzed, and sold back to the people who started it."
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http://www.gilscottheron.com/lyrevol.html
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Let me say that differently.
The plot does not seem to be as much sexuality driven as anxiety over the search for sexual moments.
That is not feminism.
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well said.
It's hard when your eyes are opened to something, because you can't undo that.
But when you really think about it, it's far better to walk through the world with open eyes than to stumble around blindly or be lead by someone else.
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Excellent.
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Sometimes I feel just extremely paranoid, like I'm just being radical and creating this entire conspiracy theory in my head - but it runs. so. deep.
It's great to know that someone out there is being as critical as I am, questioning everything, and seeing how it all relates to what you already know are lies and constructions.
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