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meathiel April 26 2020, 15:49:27 UTC
Sorry to hear ...

Yeah - nightmares seem to be a "thing" these days. :-(

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ravenfeather April 26 2020, 23:31:13 UTC
Do you have a way to get in touch with your sister, or get in touch with someone who can get in touch with her?

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fbhjr April 26 2020, 23:33:04 UTC
No. She hasn't communicated with me since 1994.
I send her things. I sent her something 2 weeks ago asking if she was OK.
No answer.

And, the family considers me the one close with her. So, no one else to try...

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ravenfeather April 27 2020, 00:04:55 UTC
I understand that, sadly. I don't have communication with my remaining family either, and I thought I remembered you had that issue with your sister. Sorry you are experiencing this. I figure I will never know if my mother, brother or sister dies.

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fbhjr April 27 2020, 00:46:31 UTC
I check the paper in the city where she lives.
I look up her phone number from time to time. As long as it's listed, she's paying the bill....

But, that's all I've got these days.

There's a reasonable chance my mother would find out if my sister died. She's not my sister's mother, but her address and phone number is the last on record for our father before he dies.
Of course I haven't talked with my mother in decades either. So, even if they tell her, I still might not find out...

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weebleswobble April 27 2020, 05:41:47 UTC
i do wish your sister would at least respond to you and let you know how she is.

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fbhjr April 27 2020, 10:41:42 UTC
That would be nice.

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hindustar July 10 2020, 01:48:09 UTC
I am so sorry. You carry around a worry and stress that has no immediate closure or relief, it's hard. *hugs*

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