psych

[fatmananonomous]

what is this problem? this human condition that causes us to not see the real person. it seems from my experience that no matter how stupid one might be we still find a way to love them, care for them, be willing to lie to ourselves for them. and what would they do for us? brake our minds, hearts, and souls. and then as we see them move on, we

Comments

[siberiankiss527]

Sometimes The wrong person seems right at first and what may be an act of love to one person is just sex for another....and sometimes we are not strong enough to know how the other person truly feels. Its an act of denial. We keep on doing things painful to us in hope that things can change. We build up this idea in our heads that this person is a god. That other person completely has your heart in their hands, and nothing can make you disaprove of this person. No matter how much they rip you apart. Its sad.

[fatmananonomous]

well, i can only speak for myself in response. i never thought you were a god. or maybe thats not what you meant exactly but still. and there were things to disaprove of. but maybe it just a state of denial. and you cant trully know how the other person thinks or feels. you can only guess and hope that they do. although that seems to not really work out sometimes. hope also plays a role. you sometimes hope that when they are doing something that you disaprove of that they will come to their senses, usually by trying to tell and help them. but hope doesnt last, for at some point you realise that maybe they will change, but it wont be any time soon. its somewhat worse though for those of us who do put our hearts in other peoples hands hoping that we have theirs in ours. and that its mutual. but at some point you just close yourself off.
"Its sad."