??? I don't see any Orihime bashing by the regulators (and most of the regulars) on that site. They just prefer her with other dudes, is all. (Like Ulquiorra or Ishida)
Hell, I think I've even read a couple of Orihime defense essays there as well.
Is the comm a complete bed of roses for fans of every pairing? No, not really, 'cause most of the members tend to like Ichiruki, Ishihime, etc. But they don't go out of their way to bash.
Exactly. I can see finding interest, appeal, or even a kink for that in fictional relationships, but IDGI when people want to find it and/or keep it IRL. Or IRL conflating it as a modern kind of thing, or that it's cooler than love. The kind of relationship in the vid does make life seem more interesting, but it's so emotionally taxing for both parties in the long run.
Yeah, and the thing is, sometimes a big fight can be cathartic, but abuse isn't a big fight. It's someone who knows you really well manipulating you over and over again, and doing the sort of stuff that isn't hot to you, because they care about the control and nothing else.
It's possible to find someone who consensually controls you (well, sort of) and cares about you, but that looks very different. And is not something you should go finding until you're sure you'll go looking for someone who actually likes you as a person before they ever dominate you at all.
So... eh. Getting down on people about their fantasies is just silly, but... OP, I really hope you understand the difference between getting off to a music video and having a relationship. Vasty gulfs of THIS HERE IS NOT THE SAME AS THAT THERE.
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Oh god. Cannot unsee it.
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but i remember the ad... wasn't it really weird in some places? :/
good thing i don't watch clone wars.
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Hell, I think I've even read a couple of Orihime defense essays there as well.
Is the comm a complete bed of roses for fans of every pairing? No, not really, 'cause most of the members tend to like Ichiruki, Ishihime, etc. But they don't go out of their way to bash.
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This. Anyone who actually regularly lurked that site wouldn't say this.
Obvious wank-bait is obvious.
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I can't tell you what he's saying, though I can guess what it's implying...
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It's possible to find someone who consensually controls you (well, sort of) and cares about you, but that looks very different. And is not something you should go finding until you're sure you'll go looking for someone who actually likes you as a person before they ever dominate you at all.
So... eh. Getting down on people about their fantasies is just silly, but... OP, I really hope you understand the difference between getting off to a music video and having a relationship. Vasty gulfs of THIS HERE IS NOT THE SAME AS THAT THERE.
Signed,
An Actually Experienced Sadomasochist
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transmetropolitan does however make me strive to be a better journalist
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