I know that being ten weeks pregnant with his kid is a really bad time to have this realization, but...I don't think I want to be married to J anymore.
Oh gosh. Momma, you do what you need to to have the best life for you and that little one. Seriously. I know I wasn't married but I would take those years of single motherhood 10x over before I EVER kept Jeremy around. I don't know what y'all's issues are (ours were his alcoholism, lack of a job, and all that) but the best thing you can do is make sure YOU are happy, healthy, and safe.
I second this. Do what your heart tells you to do. It led me in the right direction, and I would do single motherhood and the tough times that I went through all over again over being married to Tom. Love you, Val <3
I love my husband, but when I'm pregnant, EVERYTHING he does is wrong, annoying, or pisses me off in some way. It's an awful feeling because he's the kind of husband that a lot of women would kill to have. He's loving, patient, attentive, and basically just ignores my hormonal mood swings where most guys would be like, "yea fuuuuuuuuck you, lady!" Yet I just can't stand him =\
Anyway, I'm not sure if this is what you're going through or if it's something more, but either way, *hugs* and I'm here to listen if you need an ear.
I agree completely! When I was pregnant my husband and I had the worst fights of our entire marriage. I think you also notice every little thing because your instinct to provide the best life for the baby kicks in. Marriage is very hard Valerie, and I know you know this but it takes good and bad times to get through. You know we will support you through whatever you decide to do!
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I love my husband, but when I'm pregnant, EVERYTHING he does is wrong, annoying, or pisses me off in some way. It's an awful feeling because he's the kind of husband that a lot of women would kill to have. He's loving, patient, attentive, and basically just ignores my hormonal mood swings where most guys would be like, "yea fuuuuuuuuck you, lady!" Yet I just can't stand him =\
Anyway, I'm not sure if this is what you're going through or if it's something more, but either way, *hugs* and I'm here to listen if you need an ear.
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