Not that I have an angry Vagina or anything but I loved this particular monologue.

[fabi_punkin_ola]

My vagina's angry. It is. It's pissed off. My vagina's furious and it needs to talk. It needs to talk about all this shit. It needs to talk to you. I mean what's the deal - an army of people out there thinking up ways to torture my poor-ass, gentle loving vagina. Spending their days constructing psycho products, and nasty ideas to undermine my

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[rackstraw]

I'd thought some more on this. Do you think it would have a sizeable, positive effect if women at large could wear pleasure-inducing undergarments?

[fabi_punkin_ola]

i think its a good thing when a guy puts a girls orgasim first. Most men can go at anytime they want, but it takes time and effort for a lot of women to get their own

[mellyjc]

More than that, I think a guy has trouble continuing once he's orgasmed. Women supposedly don't have that problem so it makes sense that if both people are going to come, the girl goes first.

[fabi_punkin_ola]

Bitch hmm I guess that too depends on the context in which its used, if one of my friends calls me a bitch then i take it as a compliment but if some random person was to call me one for things out of line then i would say obviously no lol

[rackstraw]

Oh, it's just some think it's warranted or necessary. Hmm, there's an extreme for which men have no counterpart. At least, none comes to mind.

That is, I don't think you'd ever find a guy who wants to be referred to as an asshole.

[rackstraw]

Monologues?

[fabi_punkin_ola]

Monologues.... as in the Vagina Monologues

[rackstraw]

Oh, right. Was wondering if you were referencing that play about the sex strike.

[mellyjc]

yes, I think the choice of word makes a huge difference. Vagina sounds all biologically technical or something..a sterile word of sorts. But penis is just plain fun to say.

I think part of the problem may come from the simple facts of it. People are afraid of what they don't understand, only gynocologists really know what the vagina looks like. The penis is just out there, mooving about at will, enticing with the intrigue it creates.

Maybe Rackstraw can clarify on this, but I suspect that the terms carry different connotations. That guys will expect that upon hearing 'vagina' the 'true' term for the organ, that women must be talking seriously about things like periods, which is unappealing. When it's 'pussy' it's a slang term for a sexual target...so the boys' reactions could indeed be quite different.

[fabi_punkin_ola]

Dont you think that that's a shame? I personally dont like to use the word pussy around a bunch of dudes. It makes them think that its alright to refer to our private parts with pornographic words. Which I dont generally mind most of them time, but sometimes....

[mellyjc]

It is a shame. Though, I don't think pussy has to carry a sexual/negative connotation, but it will be hard to change. I'm at a loss, though, because I don't like 'vagina' either. Doesn't leave many labels for it really, other than the overly generic crotch and groin and so on. My boyfriend's given mine a name so I have that to refer to it by, but it's not really a beautiful name either.