One day at a time, sweetheart... that's the best you can do. Hang in there, and if you need someone to talk to... I'm always here.
I've had it go both ways, the fast unexpected death and the lingering drawn-out one, for people and animals both... and I've come to the conclusion that there is no easy for such things. You're never ready either way, you never feel you've said I love you enough times or eloquently enough, you never truly want to let go... It's hard to see them suffer and it's hard to lose them without any warning. When you love it's hard to lose, period... but no one who goes is ever gone forever. You do the best you can and love them with all that you have, and when it's time for them to continue on, you let them go. It's all we can do.
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I've had it go both ways, the fast unexpected death and the lingering drawn-out one, for people and animals both... and I've come to the conclusion that there is no easy for such things. You're never ready either way, you never feel you've said I love you enough times or eloquently enough, you never truly want to let go... It's hard to see them suffer and it's hard to lose them without any warning. When you love it's hard to lose, period... but no one who goes is ever gone forever. You do the best you can and love them with all that you have, and when it's time for them to continue on, you let them go. It's all we can do.
*hugs again*
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i don't....
what do i say>?
i'm wrapping my arms around both of you.
we have our heads together.
we know about love. it feels safe.
you are the best thing she could ever have.
that's good -- perfect, even -- for the both of you.
for the THREE of you.
oh i'm so sorry.
i wish i was there.
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