About narcissists

[erudito]

A proposition: no one actually falls in love with a serious narcissist; they fall in love with whatever lies the narcissist is telling about themselves to themselves at the time.

Comments

[spark_au]

Ahh, that's one of those propositions that's difficult to refute.

I'd actually suggest that someone of sufficiently low self worth could, would and do easily fall in love with narcissists.

I think David Williamson even had a pithy line about it, "You fell in love with him because you thought he was brilliant. He fell in love with you because you thought he was brilliant".