I Must Be Out Of My Mind

[erstexman]

Yet again, I seem to be falling hard for someone who lives over 1000 miles away. Why can I not seem to have any luck meeting/falling in love with someone no further than 100 miles away?

This one seems to be different though. B lives in mort_83 's neck of the woods. We first started chatting back and forth on Daddy Hunt, then became friends on Facebook.

Comments

[maxauburn]

I know how tough it is to be alone, and tired of it.

Sometimes, long distance things actually do work out.

Hang in there.

[erstexman]

Thanks - we will see how things go.

[jccub1]

Y'know something? I don't think you're nuts. If it feels right then it's right for you...even if it turns out to be right for you right now. I say go with your heart! :) (although I am a bit of a soppy romantic...)
I hope you find that it is everything you hoped it would be and vice versa :)
*hugs*

[erstexman]

We have talked about that, but until his house sells, he does not want to venture too far.

[mrdreamjeans]

Evan, you know I support you in whatever you do ... I am a hopeful romantic. Don't worry if someone lives at a distance ... If you have a connection with someone, you've got to check it out. Go for it.

But, do ask yourself two questions ... Are you attracted to someone who lives at a distance because on some level it is "safe" ... if it doesn't work out for whatever reason, you can always blame it on the distance? ... and ... Why am I attracted to men who live at a distance, rather than someone who might be just as appropriate at home?

Good luck, Hon ... Hugs ...

[erstexman]

Why am I attracted to men who live at a distance, rather than someone who might be just as appropriate at home?

I have lived here for 16 years and at this point look back and all the guys I would find interesting enough to date and develop something romantic with either have 1) Not shared that same level of attraction or 2)those guys were already partnered. In that time the longest I have dated anyone who returned that same feeling was 8 months and we parted as friends after I figured out he was alcoholic and would never love me as much as he loved Johnny Walker Black by the gallon.

So, if sparks at this point happen far away, they catch my attention. Read my post today for a view of how this kind of thing seems to happen for me here...

[texwriterbear]

There is nothing wrong with taking a leap and seeing what happens. Best of luck!!

[erstexman]

Thanks - was nice to meet you, briefly as it was this weekend. Hope to someday get to take those softball photos I was not able to this weekend...