On past relationships and P.A.'s...a cautionary tale and disclosure.

[envirobear]

Anyone who reads this knows that something happened over the past few weeks that has me back in the "dating pool" again...the situation got very complicated, and I take responsibility for my own actions that contributed to the complications. I also said in my last post on the subject that it is past history, and I mean that. Good intentions won't

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[stoicbear]

I hope you get through this OK. Slow death by chemo destroying your liver is no fun at all.

[envirobear]

I'm almost a quarter of the way through it, I hope. Thank you, my friend *bearhug*

[putzmeisterbear]

My PA is long retired but when I wore it regularly I would gladly take it out anytime some wanted me to. And I always asked at the point of "unveiling" if they wanted it removed. It's just polite.

[envirobear]

You are a polite man, Steve. I was kind of hesitant the first time with a P.A. up my butt, and didn't think it would be a problem this time. In my opinion now, they're nice to look at, not so nice to play with.

[bearfuz]

That is a very thoughtful post, and one that must have been a bit painful to write. I salute you for doing the right thing for yourself, and for educating the rest of us in the process!

And now... HUGS.

[envirobear]

It wasn't easy to write, but it needed to be written, Chip. Thank you...it's wonderful to find hugs from you at *any* time!

*bearhugs*

[furr_a_bruin]

Yikes. Big hugs and best wishes for a negative outcome.... *grin*

Personally, I've never liked PAs. Never been fucked by a man wearing one, and only once made the naive error of sucking a cock with one in. I don't care how good it feels for the guy wearing it, I don't want to crack a tooth - or worse - because of one.

[envirobear]

Aw, Furr! *bearhug* That means a lot to me.

And you know how I feel about P.A.'s now...they aren't much fun when deepthroating, either.

[furrbear]

We talked about this way earlier in the week. My thoughts and prayers are still with ya on this. Brave post, and I imagine not easy to write.

I usually take mine out when topping, except at home. Never had an issue with a blow-out with jewelry in, but I think it's been more due to a curved barbell instead of a ring or circular barbell. The rings leave a floppy condom that feels like I'm inside a plastic bag instead of a man. :-(

[envirobear]

You know how much I appreciate being able to talk with you over the past few days, John...and I can't begin to express my thanks. Now you know what I couldn't quite frame properly on Tuesday night.

Maybe some of this depends on the shape of the guy's head--if a ring can be folded over to one side and stay in place--or maybe it's the angle of "attack". I'm just not willing to put myself through all this again to figure out what's possible.

[furrbear]

Tuesday night I marked up to a mild-to-mid degree of shock.

Just the Rx bill would have put me into severe shock

[envirobear]

But you're better now.

I actually asked the pharmacist "Did you put this on my insurance?"