how come so many guys i date "still love me" after we date, still will hook up with me after we date, but never want me for me? they always want someone else
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this is kirby my lovepetittypewriterFebruary 16 2008, 05:12:46 UTC
you shouldn't stay positive about this kind of thing at all ever. you're missing the point: it's not that you're not good enough. it's not that something is wrong with you. it's THE BOY who is an ASSHOLE to the highest degree of assholeism. he treats girls like shit and gives nice girls those "i still love you" lines (aka total bull) because they want to get in your pants, AND they know that will keep the girl feeling hurt but always coming back. because after you guys fool around and he starts being a jerk again, you'll start to wonder why he said he loved you in the first place because you know that he knows that what he's doing is hurting you. so why is he doing it? because he doesn't care! never believe an ex who says "i still love you" and hooks up with you. he says he loves you so that he can hook up with you. and the longer you keep hooking up with him, the more it will hurt. and don't ever ever ever think that he might change because he won't. guys who do this are and always will be douchebags. whichever douchebag is doing
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You are an amazing human being. I know that nothing I say is really going to change your life and make you unbelievably happy, but I'll still post a comment anyway.
Just look at how angry Kirby got for you. There are people who love you madly for the person you are. Please remember that. You are good enough.
A lot of people suck ass. A LOT. You do not. No ass sucking from you.
I've told myself plenty of times that I'm not good enough. But I was foolish for thinking so. You are a breathtakingly amazing human being. I'm looking over at the poem you wrote for James at Youth Group some years ago (it's hanging on his dresser which is now my dresser -- crazy) and you are superdoopercool.
Okay. I don't know if any of this is helping or if I should try to "help." You are good enough. Some people, unfortunately, aren't good enough for you. Stick with the ones who are.
thank you guys. i really really really appreciate that. i'm trying. thank you again. i'm too tired to write anymore. love you both though very much. thank you.
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You are an amazing human being. I know that nothing I say is really going to change your life and make you unbelievably happy, but I'll still post a comment anyway.
Just look at how angry Kirby got for you. There are people who love you madly for the person you are. Please remember that. You are good enough.
A lot of people suck ass. A LOT. You do not. No ass sucking from you.
I've told myself plenty of times that I'm not good enough. But I was foolish for thinking so. You are a breathtakingly amazing human being. I'm looking over at the poem you wrote for James at Youth Group some years ago (it's hanging on his dresser which is now my dresser -- crazy) and you are superdoopercool.
Okay. I don't know if any of this is helping or if I should try to "help." You are good enough. Some people, unfortunately, aren't good enough for you. Stick with the ones who are.
-Paul
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thank you.
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