After reading an article in today's NYTimes about Ann Leary, Delia has determined what she has long suspected: I don't really know what shame is.
I can do fear. And guilt. And I can certainly feel ashamed about an action I have performed that was ignoble. But that giant surge of ontological shame - which prompts some people to apologize for
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Curiously, although I am practically a shaman of shame --if you can ferret it out in others like a shame detective, that would make you a shamus of shame-- I also don't believe in guilty pleasures, and that if I like something then it's good. But I will tell you in meticulous detail why the thing I think is good is good, and why although it resembles things that other people and I acknowledge are bad, that the thing I like is really really different from the good things.
Sorry if I've gone on too long about this...sorry I apologized... sorry I apologized for apologizing...
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Trust me.
You are born wrong and nothing will ever fix it.
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Max: I don't know the meaning of the word fear.
Seigfreid: Shtarker - kill him!
Max: Fear - a feeling of uneasiness.
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