Birthday day

Nov 19, 2016 20:51

So, today is Miss M's 18th birthday.

(Yes, I know.)

We've had a lovely day, she got a new phone (very shiny etc, she was very pleased), although her favourite presents were Satre's Being and Nothingness: An Essay on Phenomenological Ontology and Political Thinkers: From Socrates to the PresentHave I mentioned that she wants to study philosophy ( ( Read more... )

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curiouswombat November 19 2016, 21:46:47 UTC
Christmas Angels is gone

Oh - how very sad.

Or maybe being fairly relaxed and trusting that the kids are alright works out well when it comes to parenting.

I think there is a lot to be said for that - worked for us, too.

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elisi November 20 2016, 17:02:37 UTC
Oh - how very sad.
There is now a MASSIVE German Christmas shop on Stonegate. But it's not the same. :( :( :(

I think there is a lot to be said for that - worked for us, too.
:D

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sea_thoughts November 19 2016, 21:51:01 UTC
Happy Birthday to her!

Sad to hear Christmas Angels closed down, seems the city council doesn't want independent retailers any more, just restaurants and bars?!

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elisi November 20 2016, 17:03:06 UTC
Thank you!

And yes, that was the impression I got from reading up on it. :(

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ragnarok_08 November 19 2016, 22:05:16 UTC
Happy Birthday to her!!

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elisi November 20 2016, 17:03:36 UTC
Thank you! <3

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kathyh November 19 2016, 22:20:31 UTC
Happy Birthday to Miss M. I can't believe she's 18, and nor I imagine can you :)

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elisi November 20 2016, 17:04:08 UTC
Thank you. And it's... sort of unreal. (For her too!)

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Thy humble phantom lurker anonymous November 20 2016, 00:53:54 UTC
Happy birthday to her!

And oh my god, this made me feel so young. And I don't mean in a philosophical, positive, touching way while I'm having a midlife crisis. I'm literally just three years older than your daughter. Hell, if you saw some of my relatively-young-character cosplays, you'd say I was younger. And yet, here I am for a year and a half bombarding you with meta, philosophical insights, Watsonian analyses, and essays. I feel like I should be respectfully raising my hand like at school.

Sorry, it's just so weird for me to know someone who has a *kids*, let alone kids almost my age :)

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Re: Thy humble phantom lurker elisi November 20 2016, 17:29:54 UTC
Thank you!

And yet, here I am for a year and a half bombarding you with meta, philosophical insights, Watsonian analyses, and essays. I feel like I should be respectfully raising my hand like at school.
LOL. But I always come back to this quote from Lost in Translation:

Bob: It gets a whole lot more complicated when you have kids. [...] Your life, as you know it... is gone. Never to return. But they learn how to walk, and they learn how to talk... and you want to be with them. And they turn out to be the most delightful people you will ever meet in your life.

This is very true. The girls are 18, 15 and 11. And the two older ones are definitely delightful & interesting & worth spending time with and talking to. We have very animated dinner table discussions about politics or philosophy or art or whatever happens to be interesting us at the time. (We are *such* bohemians in that sense.) So don't worry about it. ;)

Sorry, it's just so weird for me to know someone who has a *kids*, let alone kids almost my age :)
luckweaver is about your age, ( ... )

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Re: Thy humble phantom lurker anonymous November 26 2016, 13:24:58 UTC
The girls are 18, 15 and 11. And the two older ones are definitely delightful & interesting & worth spending time with and talking to. We have very animated dinner table discussions about politics or philosophy or art or whatever happens to be interesting us at the time. (We are *such* bohemians in that sense.)
You sound like a very interesting family!

luckweaver is about your age, and I've known her for years. Don't sweat it. (Imagine how old *I* feel... /o\)
Oh, I didn’t mean to make *you* feel old! It’s just…I felt weirdly young. I mean, when you just type what you want to say and always only see a screen, you sometimes get this strange impression that *everyone* on the internet is the same age as you are!

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Re: Thy humble phantom lurker elisi November 26 2016, 23:28:47 UTC
You sound like a very interesting family!
Oh we are! :)

I mean, when you just type what you want to say and always only see a screen, you sometimes get this strange impression that *everyone* on the internet is the same age as you are!
Yes, I think we all do that. But then we are, mostly, meeting because of shared interests, and thus age often matters little.

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