That's the nature of things though. Sometimes we have lots to say, sometimes we don't. And often you bare your soul and no one says a thing and sometimes you post about your socks and it sparks a discussion.
Don't take it personally. Life's too short and LJ isn't real life.
I might not have known you as long as the other people on your friends list, but I think I've gotten to know you...maybe not the exact details of your life but who you are as a person -- your personality.
I'd miss you of you went away comepletely from LJ.
I've gotten burned out on LJ as well. Don't feel like there is a pressure to "entertain".
Maybe you need a break from LJ...oh, if you do leave LJ, I hope you keep in touch via email.
well...i like to give people the benefit of the doubt and think they are being honest. so i hope that what i do know about you is real and that you weren't just looking to see if you could make people believe you're someone that you aren't. but then there really is no way of knowing since i've never met you, but i think everyone is really just who they pretend to be anyway.
but...don't do this for anyone but you. if there's nothing in it for you then you shouldn't feel like you have to update because you have all these people who are expecting something. that takes the fun out of it. it sucks that so many people that you meet here you wind up just having a surface relationship with and you never really get anything out of it like the relationships you have in your everyday life.
I've said from day one I'm really a 65 year old Korean man! LOL Someone once told me I could be what I want, but they know who I really am. It was funny.
At one time this was a distraction...now, it's simply a distraction! I just feel my interests changing. I feel with a few people on my list (yourself included) that we grew very close very fast. But it's as if we hit a wall, a wall that is called distance, and everything kind of stopped. Like our realationship hit a point where we should have been out doing something, hanging out, but since we cannot, everything winded down.
Now I just feel like most of the connections I've had have shifted and stalled in many ways. I dunno...maybe it's just my hormones.
i haven't really felt that with a lot of people, but you're certainly one of them. meeting you here was a big rush and i was like she'ssogreatandfunny and...oh man wow. then there's nothing more to be done unless i could come up with a bunch of money and fly out to see you and hang out for a few days. heh. but you just try to adapt to the kind of relationship your time and space will allow.
While it would be great to get together someday it would be a bit drastic just to convince me to keep my journal up and running. LOL I dunno, I'm sure I'll stick around. I'm just being so emo lately I coulda posted that on Myspace. =)
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but i do know i like to read what you have to write, that will do for me
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Maybe I'm just going through a strange time. I will not go anywhere wiythout a proper goodbye though.
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would the proper goodbye consist of tears....cuz i dont think i'd be able to contain them...SIGH
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*HUGS*
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Don't take it personally. Life's too short and LJ isn't real life.
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And often you bare your soul and no one says a thing and sometimes you post about your socks and it sparks a discussion.
LOL I have seen it happen often on others journals as well. So is the LJ way. I knew this coming in.
I don't mean to take it personally. In fact, I don't even know what's up or down anymore really.
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*SNIFF*
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I'd miss you of you went away comepletely from LJ.
I've gotten burned out on LJ as well. Don't feel like there is a pressure to "entertain".
Maybe you need a break from LJ...oh, if you do leave LJ, I hope you keep in touch via email.
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Proof that I haven't been doing well with my journal, Anomie666 has not 'borrowed' one of my posts in months! =D
Maybe I need time...dunno.
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Oh, my name is Matt...I'm sure that has been in my journal here and there.
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Your name is Matt! I had no idea.
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I was going to send you something via email once...but don't remember what it was now...hmmm...
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but...don't do this for anyone but you. if there's nothing in it for you then you shouldn't feel like you have to update because you have all these people who are expecting something. that takes the fun out of it. it sucks that so many people that you meet here you wind up just having a surface relationship with and you never really get anything out of it like the relationships you have in your everyday life.
do what you feel like you have to do.
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At one time this was a distraction...now, it's simply a distraction! I just feel my interests changing. I feel with a few people on my list (yourself included) that we grew very close very fast. But it's as if we hit a wall, a wall that is called distance, and everything kind of stopped. Like our realationship hit a point where we should have been out doing something, hanging out, but since we cannot, everything winded down.
Now I just feel like most of the connections I've had have shifted and stalled in many ways. I dunno...maybe it's just my hormones.
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I dunno, I'm sure I'll stick around. I'm just being so emo lately I coulda posted that on Myspace. =)
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