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taz_39 October 27 2023, 19:06:56 UTC

I wish you wouldn't feel guilty. What if all 8 billion of us had miserable war-torn lives? Life would not be worth living then, for anyone. There has to be something to strive for, and for many people that's peace, and family, and safety, which unless you experience it you won't long for it when things go bad. The dice fall how they will, and none of us get to control these things either for ourselves or for other people.

Also, up until technology really started advancing we were all very ignorant of most wars and conflicts and natural disasters. We went about our lives while others were suffering, and we didn't know anything about it. Knowing about it and not being able to do anything about it, or going about life blissfully ignorant, neither are a crime or anything to feel guilty about. That's what being alive entails.

As recently as the 80s we may not have heard about that hurricane in Mexico until we got the Sunday paper, and then what was there to do except say, "Oh those poor people" and maybe donate or join a mission trip to ( ... )

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egg_shell October 27 2023, 19:24:10 UTC
I think a lot of people are doing soul searching right now with all the terrible news we are constantly exposed to. My way is to try to live my own life and not add to the confusion. I don’t actually feel guilty (as far as I know I didn’t cause this - except for the fact that all my life I’ve used plastics and burned oil and gas and added to the earth’s burden - so in a way I did cause it). But so much of what is going on just doesn’t seem fair, or sane. Probably a natural reaction is to have a little “survivors guilt”.

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mairi_dubh October 27 2023, 20:59:41 UTC

I wonder, sometimes, whether we don't feel guilty not for having it as good as we have it here----something like eighty percent (or higher) of the world's population, it is said, wakes up every morning
Yet, we are discontent with our lives, and we complain, and I suspect that down deep that's why we feel guilty.

Regarding other countries' wars---and I'm not saying those wars don't impact us---we may feel powerless.

As we started to pull out from the Covid-19 lock-down and to begin to recover a little bit from the impact of the virus on the world, Russia invaded Ukraine. There were 22 (twenty-two) other wars already ongoing before Hamas attacked Israel.

Understand. Be compassionate. Be generous. Be grateful (while we, ( ... )

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egg_shell October 27 2023, 23:29:20 UTC
It’s very hard to live a totally harmless life when so much of our entire lifestyle has us using and eating things that harm the environment. Change takes time!

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seaivy October 28 2023, 00:53:13 UTC
i've dipped into other philosophies and spirtualities
by now i can't remember who said what

but what i took away was that the good of one person can influence the collective good
somehow - in ways that rationality may discount - good can multiply

so all small can become larger GOOD
which make an individuals life important
it's a contribution

your happy chicken
your art work done with joy
a meal made for enjoyment
it all counts

time spent in peace
wanting the good of others
it counts!

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egg_shell October 28 2023, 11:52:41 UTC

"time spent in peace - wanting the good of others - it counts!" Yes, that's what I truly believe. One more happy, kind person makes the world an all-over happier, kinder place.

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howlin_wolf_66 October 28 2023, 11:45:39 UTC
Besides giving money to official charities, the best way you can honour those people is by enjoying your life as much as you can...

It's far more offensive to live in comparative luxury, but not appreciate it by making the most of it. *hugs*

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egg_shell October 28 2023, 11:49:45 UTC

True! We need to have gratitude and compassion.

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