Of Decisiveness

[eclipsegryph]

I need to be more assertive; decisive. I’m fairly certain that is where a bulk of the problems I face stems from.

I have always been a very passive person, and I believe I always will be. You can see it in how I talk, and in how I write. Whenever I have someone critique my writing one of the first things inevitably said is that I need to quit using

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[eclipsegryph]

Thank you very much! ^_^

Annnnd, oh, that's right, I forgot to ask Luxie if she would do that for me. I'll get back to you on that. ;)

[to_the_wick]

I find it hilarious that the first thing I thought of was what kind of cake it should be. (Chocolate cake with chocolate covered strawberries!)

Back on topic: having a fairly passive voice is at least very good for settling internet arguments, where the written word is almost always taken the wrong way. So hey, there are sometimes pluses to passivity. (Passivity is a fun word to say, too. Go ahead, say it out loud. Passivity! See? :p)

Anyway, good luck on this self-improvement! I have no doubt that you'll accomplish everything you're aiming for. ♥

[artonis]

I have to admit I can't quite follow what this is exactly about, except that I have no hard feelings, but that is no surprise considering how numb I am to emotional scarring. XD

[eclipsegryph]

Basically me feeling really guilty and stupid for saying stuff like "Maybe" or "I might be around" or "I'll try" whenever you would ask me when I was going to be online next, or something like that. I could have been better off being more decisive on that. >.>

[c_eagle]

u haven't left *me* hurt, my friend... ^V^
True I would like to have spent more time with ya at conventions and otherwise, but there's always the future!
*wing hug of reassurance!*

[maggock]

Wait, wut? We don't even talk anymore, why are you apologizing to me? Most everything between us is ancient history, water way WAY under the bridge. o_o

[eclipsegryph]

Yeah, I know, but it was more of a realization of why I acted in certain ways that I didn't have back then. >.>