let's see. I will talk during sex if he prompts that he likes it, but I am not comfortable saying too much, other than giving directions. Harder, faster, that hole, yeah yeah more, etc etc. you know the drill. Someone who shall remain nameless cried out "who's my bitch?!" during sex and got smacked. As for me, I prefer that a guy at least make a little noise because I want to be absolutely sure he's enjoying himself.
A clear sign that I'm not having good sex? I ask questions about random stuff, or just chatter in general. If my mind is wandering, then the sex is not good!
"I prefer that a guy at least make a little noise because I want to be absolutely sure he's enjoying himself. "
Yeah, at the least I need some sort of grunt or moan. During oral, I almost need to hear my name. I need to be cheered on for my efforts. If you're not gonna say my name and tell me it's good, shit, clap for me! Look down and give me a thumbs up. Do something.
I think too much, and I think about what might come out of my mouth before I say it, and (even when I don't know what I'm going to say) I sometimes feel that it doesn't sound authentic (and by this point, with 30+ seconds of thought over it, is it?) so I just moan more and stfu. :/
My "depends" is that I am fairly submissive, so if the person I am with wants to hear me or asks me a question, then I answer. Otherwise I don't really talk.
I enjoy it when my partners talk, though. Either to say how good it is or how much they like it or give instructions or whatever. The only thing I don't like (both in talk and as a submissive in general) is humiliation - no name calling, no "you're a dirty slut aren't you?", none of that. Being disciplined is one thing, but all humiliation does is stick fingers in my existing emotional wounds.
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A clear sign that I'm not having good sex? I ask questions about random stuff, or just chatter in general. If my mind is wandering, then the sex is not good!
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"I prefer that a guy at least make a little noise because I want to be absolutely sure he's enjoying himself. "
Yeah, at the least I need some sort of grunt or moan. During oral, I almost need to hear my name. I need to be cheered on for my efforts. If you're not gonna say my name and tell me it's good, shit, clap for me! Look down and give me a thumbs up. Do something.
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I enjoy it when my partners talk, though. Either to say how good it is or how much they like it or give instructions or whatever. The only thing I don't like (both in talk and as a submissive in general) is humiliation - no name calling, no "you're a dirty slut aren't you?", none of that. Being disciplined is one thing, but all humiliation does is stick fingers in my existing emotional wounds.
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