This shit is fuckin with me

[dyvinesweetness]

I'ma TRY to withhold commentary, but y'all know I can't do that for but so long. In the meanwhile I'm just trynna figure out what the general consensus is.

Poll What constitues sex?

Lawd...

Comments

[moneda]

That BF post was so strange for me. I got lost in all the ways people seem to "see" sex, or don't see it. LOL @ oral sex not being sex. I'd love a motherfucker to tell me that shit after catching him or herself some herpes.

[dyvinesweetness]

Roli... oh my fuckin god. As if it's up to them!! Fools are really "debatin" the shit as if they have a choice!! "Oh I don't count that." Well guess what, negro? MY ASS is counting!! *breathe*

[lovelylind]

I'd love a motherfucker to tell me that shit after catching him or herself some herpes.

Thank you!

[moneda]

Every time I browse over this poll I wish I could view results, lol.

[idoto]

see....I knew posts like this were gonna make me miss blackfolk

[idoto]

FINE!!!

I say sometimes because I feel that there can be an emotional connection with sex. And I can understand how someone could feel like it's love instead of just a physical act. A connection.

But I also don't think that it's always one or the other. Sometimes it's just good, sticky fun...

[idoto]

Sometimes it's just good, sticky fun

see: weed & eggs

[dyvinesweetness]

Correction: eggs and weed. The eggs come first. lol

[toodani]

i said sometimes ONLY because I distinguish when i'm with my partner. Making love is usually more attentive, involved, and sometimes sensual. Fucking is very emotionally removed and is focused on the physical release, and for me, usually rougher sex. But if you tell me you didn't make love to that other girl, you only fucked her... i'm still kicking your ass.

[dyvinesweetness]

Can you not love someone and be making love to them?

Meh...

[i_dreamed_i_was]

It's not that I don't think oral sex is sex at all, but it does seem to be on a different level for me-- but then I'm pretty much hetero. *ponders* Well, I would have considered myself to have sex with a woman if we had oral, but maybe not a man. Maybe. I don't know... Like on some level... Why is it that you can touch your partner's junk and it's not sex, you can put your mouth anywhere on his body and it's not sex... But put the mouth on the junk? I mean... That's not even logical, I know. Because if he fingers you and then you jack... Wait-- make this FO!

But seriously...

[i_dreamed_i_was]

I mean, all these technicalities and not considering it on a spectrum-- that is some BS. I didn't have... Wait-- MAKE THIS FO!!!!!!!!

Re: Meh...

[dyvinesweetness]

lol I would, but people that aren't on my flist have voted. I'd feel kinda stinky for suddenly making an entry that they participated in disappear.

[dyvinesweetness]

Ok, someone's got some 'splainin to do!