It's rough but for what it's worth, I think what you drew ( haha) from the experience, is the correct idea. She is focused (and only capable of focusing on herself). Those are the parameters and that's the game you play. I do believe that your son understands far more of the nuances of this than maybe he lets on. Sometimes people bring pain on to themselves by clinging to someone that hurts them just because it's better to know why one feels sad etc. (This is a huge assumption--I know nothing...I'm just saying). Anyway, he is getting closer to the age where you will find out who he and who he will be. He seemed really good, so :)
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She is focused (and only capable of focusing on herself). Those are the parameters and that's the game you play.
I do believe that your son understands far more of the nuances of this than maybe he lets on. Sometimes people bring pain on to themselves by clinging to someone that hurts them just because it's better to know why one feels sad etc. (This is a huge assumption--I know nothing...I'm just saying). Anyway, he is getting closer to the age where you will find out who he and who he will be. He seemed really good, so :)
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