on certain sins, generally of omission

[dustthouart]

Hurting someone through thoughtlessness, has its own unique pains. The three worst points

Comments

[predestinedsoul]

Write everything down. It won't completely prevent this, but it will help.

[dustthouart]

Yeah but then you get "now where did I put that post-it"...

Besides, some thoughtless errors (like the one that precipitated this reflection) couldn't have been prevented by a to-do list or a calendar. Instead, they're a snowballing snafu of miscommunications, assumptions, and "it seemed like a good idea at the time" naivete, with a generous dollop of adding two and two to make five.

[predestinedsoul]

haha true, true. I still think it helps generally. Using google calendar has greatly enhanced my ability to do lots of activities without letting as much stuff slip. You're never going to be perfect.

[kisekileia]

Welcome to two of my disabilities. (The two with acronyms that start with A.) I know what it's like, and I hope it gets better soon!