I think that it would be better to find someone close to perfect and embrace their faults as they would yours. That would be as close to an ideal relationship as you can get, really. That doesn't mean settling or rushing out to find them though. That can cause you more problems than it's worth. Until you find that someone, enjoy what you're currently accomplishing and don't let that social pressure make you feel inadequate. Everything always seems to fall into place but not exactly in the time or way that you would have planned. With that, my friend, I wish you the best of luck. Just know that I'm always here if you need someone to vent to :)
I realize now that it isn't easy or even realistic to find the perfect person. It makes sense considering no person is perfect and differences between two people can build a stronger relationship
It is definitely difficult to find the absolutely perfect person. Prince Charming/Princesses don't exist, no matter how much Disney may want you to think they do.
It's better to find someone who is who you want, even if they're imperfect. If they're meant to be with you, then you'll learn to accept their flaws, and vise versa.
Just remember, perfection doesn't exist, or is very, very rare.
Like JB said, I'm here for ya (and just across the hall) if you ever want to talk. <3
I have this problem alot: I settle, and then things dont work out. But when I tried to sit and wait, the lonliness really got to me, and ruined my mood in more ways then one. I really cant give you an answer to the question you ask, because I have yet to find one myself.
As for accepting ones faults, your NEVER going to find the totaly perfect match, but taking whats close and accepting the faults is what builds the strength of a relationship. Your muscles never get bigger if they arent given difficult tasks ^_-
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Until you find that someone, enjoy what you're currently accomplishing and don't let that social pressure make you feel inadequate. Everything always seems to fall into place but not exactly in the time or way that you would have planned. With that, my friend, I wish you the best of luck. Just know that I'm always here if you need someone to vent to :)
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I realize now that it isn't easy or even realistic to find the perfect person. It makes sense considering no person is perfect and differences between two people can build a stronger relationship
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Does the old saying "Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all" hold true?
I agree with you though, don't fall into social pressures.
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It's better to find someone who is who you want, even if they're imperfect. If they're meant to be with you, then you'll learn to accept their flaws, and vise versa.
Just remember, perfection doesn't exist, or is very, very rare.
Like JB said, I'm here for ya (and just across the hall) if you ever want to talk. <3
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As for accepting ones faults, your NEVER going to find the totaly perfect match, but taking whats close and accepting the faults is what builds the strength of a relationship. Your muscles never get bigger if they arent given difficult tasks ^_-
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