Comments | duckess: Gonna Blow Up.

duckess

Gonna Blow Up.

Jan 20, 2009 08:05

I've put up with this shit since day one ( Read more... )

Comments 3

nayva January 20 2009, 19:02:50 UTC

She obviously doesn't understand that her behavior is a problem. If she doesn't know it is, how is she going to change/fix it? You have to tell her.

duckess January 21 2009, 02:31:13 UTC

Well, I mean... I've mentioned several things to her. She either apologises and promises not to do it again, or gives some excuse that I'm too uncertain to protest against.
For example: I asked her if she could at least switch her alarm to one of a less annoying nature (she had some crazy song that would blare out CHACHACHACHACHA!) and she said "But anything else and I don't wake up."

The problem isn't that I'm worried about pointing out these habits, but that if I start, I'll burst and just start spewing out everything. The individual remarks don't seem strong enough to give her the idea, but I'm afraid all at once will be too much.

But I most definately understand what you're saying. It's true, but I just don't know how to go about it.

nayva January 21 2009, 02:42:41 UTC

Go to that thing that they sometimes have on MSN--that Ask Prudence thing or whatever.