Järkytyin kun kaverini oli menossa naimisiin ensi kesänä (olisi siis sama kuin tuo ex-ystäväsi, 21) ja samalla sain kuulla kaverini poikaystävän menevän naimisiin ensi sunnuntaina (on minun ikäinen, eli 20v). Vaikka itsekin olen hääihminen (ne kaikki mekot sun muut <3) en voisi kuvitella meneväni naimisiin nyt. :S Olisi jotenkin... ahdistavaa.
Niin, jokainen tyylillään. Ei minulla naimisiin menoa vastaan ole mitään, eikä edes nuorella iällä solmittuja liittoja. Mutta se, että syynä on aika tavalla puhtaasti uskonto ja kun he ovat kuitenkin seurustelleet "vasta" vuoden pari... Ja heidän tapauksessaan tuon liiton oikeasti pitäisi olla ikuinen.
Mmm~ I've been seeing a few of them. Ilmari is doing fine, though I tend to drive him crazy. We're dating, so I think I'm entitled to that XP Most are doing well. Aleksi, Olli, Suvi and Ona are studying medicine, as is Ville (if I remember correctly). Etc.
In Finland never even getting married is no longer an issue. Actually most of the people who I know are still single, even if they have dated for 5+ years...
Umm... Eee. I got married this summer and I am 20. :D I feel somehow not wanted now. x3 Sorry! But I happened to be 15 when my boyfriend and I started going out, so it was about time right? It felt something far away for mee too for long time, getting married I mean. Last winter I just felt ready. Ready for upgrading our relationship to the "next level". ^3^ Of course it feels unbelievable to be 20 and married, but still. I think it was our time to tighten together.
I thought nothing would have changed after marriage, but actually there has been lots of things. We lived together and all after all.
Congratulations^^ As I wrote above, I have nothing against getting married, even when relatively young. It's when the motive is a belief system that basically forces you to marry somebody in order to live with them, that I start to feel uneasy. Okay, and the fact that their marriage kinda has to be until death does them apart. And the fact that the parents must pay for it all. Not out of completely free will. Okay, and the couple hasn't dated nearly as long as you had before getting married. Only a year or two.
No I did not! I just felt bit like I am the one you're talking about. x3 And I know that get married before living together... it feels like they want to ruin the marriage since it's really different to live together! @____@ If I would have known what it is to live together I propably would have waited longer for moving together! :D
I think it's good to try out how living goes together since you never know what it will finally be when you do it. It's like to make sure you want to marry. ;D
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No mutta, jokainen tyylillään. :D
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I hope the party will be good. Though at the moment it looks like it'll be a total catastrophy...
It's Essi.
I'm not on a diet as in trying to get rid of weight. I'm talking about a lifelong thing to stop all the symptoms that certain foods cause me.
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In Finland never even getting married is no longer an issue. Actually most of the people who I know are still single, even if they have dated for 5+ years...
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I thought nothing would have changed after marriage, but actually there has been lots of things. We lived together and all after all.
Sorry for getting married so young! ;P
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I hope you didn't get offended or upset.
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I think it's good to try out how living goes together since you never know what it will finally be when you do it. It's like to make sure you want to marry. ;D
Sorry for bad anglish I am so tired atm. x__x
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