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Dec 05, 2009 00:04

So, er.... Say that... you think you might have developed feelings for one of your best friends, but you don't want things to change between the both of you. What would you do in that kind of situation?

And I'm not saying that I personally have or anything! I just...... I don't know.

mion sonozaki

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promissum December 5 2009, 07:57:40 UTC
Don't say anything.

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[Anon forever] demon_heir December 5 2009, 17:00:10 UTC
You sure that would be the best?

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yeswedo December 5 2009, 09:26:02 UTC
Obviously, you don't say anything. It'd ruin it. You'll get over it eventually.

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[Anon forever] demon_heir December 5 2009, 17:01:11 UTC
How do you know for sure if someone would be able to get over something like that?

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yeswedo December 5 2009, 21:42:42 UTC
Because over time those feelings will just become a part of your friendship. There's a chance it's not even really ... romantic feelings, and that you just feel so close to that person that you think it should be. It's not like you'd be the only person in the world to stop being attracted to someone.

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demon_heir December 5 2009, 23:36:37 UTC
That does make sense...

I guess I'll have to wait a bit longer and see how things go.

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stripping December 5 2009, 14:22:09 UTC
It depends. How understanding of a person is the best friend? Because there are friends who, if you told, would go on remaining friends without much change... and there are friends who wouldn't be able to do that. The trouble is distinguishing the two.

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[Anon forever] demon_heir December 5 2009, 17:04:22 UTC
He's a pretty understanding guy, but....

Well...say he has this image of you being a tomboy, and he's used to seeing you like that. But if you happen to ask, it would make you appear more feminine. That would break the previous image he had of you forever, wouldn't it?

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stripping December 5 2009, 22:25:24 UTC
If you're friends with him, shouldn't he be able to accept you as you are?

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demon_heir December 5 2009, 23:38:24 UTC
I suppose... Though I'm not sure how I'd react if he started treating me differently because of it....

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phoenix_temple December 5 2009, 14:47:31 UTC
It would depend on how close the two of you really are, I'd think.

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[Anon forever] demon_heir December 5 2009, 17:05:48 UTC
Say these two people have known each other for only a short period of time, but they still enjoy the times they spend together and wouldn't trade them for the world. What then?

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[Anon forever] phoenix_temple December 5 2009, 17:22:09 UTC
If they wouldn't trade them for the world... Then I don't think confessing could hurt the relationship that badly. If you love someone, it only hurts to hide it.

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demon_heir December 5 2009, 17:40:03 UTC
But it's still possible that relationship could fall apart, right?

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cleaver_bitch December 5 2009, 14:57:30 UTC
....

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[Anon forever] demon_heir December 5 2009, 17:06:32 UTC
Oh cra Er... Did you...want to say anything at all?

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[Locked] cleaver_bitch December 5 2009, 22:01:41 UTC
....Mi-chan?

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[Locked] demon_heir December 5 2009, 22:02:39 UTC
Heh. Guess it's pointless to try and lie to you now, huh?

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