Oh dear, *hugs tightly* I don't really know what to say or even if I should say something considering we also haven't talked for ages and I am not that good with emotions (maybe you remember? If not, it's no problem) But one thing I can say is so what if you play childish games? I also still play Mario and well, Okami so I don't think that's bad. If you enjoy them, if you like them, feel free.
I completely sympathize with everything you are going through. I am actually going through a similar situation at the moment. It hurts so much to see someone you consider a friend giving attention to someone else, and in the end, replacing you. I also let my jealousy get the better of me, and ended up in the same place you are.
The best thing I can say is, as much as it hurts now, it will get better. You will find a new friend but you'll have your memories, and everything will be okay. It just takes time, which is the annoying part.
I hope things get better for you soon, though. I'm sorry you have to feel this way. *hugs*
Thank you. Yeah I do feel like I have been replaced... I am trying to get over it but... its just really hard. I think we are still friends... I am trying to give her space but right now.. ughhh i just dont know what to do or say.
Goodness, what a freaking coincidence, because this is the EXACT thing that happened to me and my soulmate just a few months ago. She just suddenly changed out of nowhere, saying she is busy and "she needs to take care of her mental health", have time for outside friends and whatnot, but she can't take a few minutes per few days to tell me how she is doing?? I am still super pissed at her for doing this to me and what can I do....she wants space, which I have given her and I did not message her since then, this was exactly a month ago. She just suddenly changed. I am sometimes thinking about messaging her and just write her how I am doing and ask her how she is doing, but it is the same like you....it feels like even a small message like that is a bother to her, because her way of writing immediately changed. We were all hearts and smilies, and now suddenly she writes these dull sentences.
That being said, don't hesitate to contact me if you need to talk! <3
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You are kidding??? Talk about coincidence. My friend was one I once considered my soulmate, but ever since she started dating her boyfriend, things have been... different. Yeah I know the feeling.. I don't want to bother her with my problems.. I have done that in the past with me doubting my friendship with her and that ended badly... That is why I don't want to tell her how I feel.. It would ruin what little we have left.
Yeah same here... we used to be all crazy and joke... but now... I can sense when she is pissed. I have messaged her today just to see how she is. As of now.. she hasn't replied. Maybe she is busy or what I don't know.
Thank you dear. That means so much. Same here.
Thanks again.. I guess it's just one of those things. I am sure I will feel better in time.
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I don't really know what to say or even if I should say something considering we also haven't talked for ages and I am not that good with emotions (maybe you remember? If not, it's no problem)
But one thing I can say is so what if you play childish games? I also still play Mario and well, Okami so I don't think that's bad. If you enjoy them, if you like them, feel free.
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Yeah.. its just how I feel atm.
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I completely sympathize with everything you are going through. I am actually going through a similar situation at the moment. It hurts so much to see someone you consider a friend giving attention to someone else, and in the end, replacing you. I also let my jealousy get the better of me, and ended up in the same place you are.
The best thing I can say is, as much as it hurts now, it will get better. You will find a new friend but you'll have your memories, and everything will be okay. It just takes time, which is the annoying part.
I hope things get better for you soon, though. I'm sorry you have to feel this way. *hugs*
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* hugd*
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That being said, don't hesitate to contact me if you need to talk! <3 ( ... )
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Yeah same here... we used to be all crazy and joke... but now... I can sense when she is pissed. I have messaged her today just to see how she is. As of now.. she hasn't replied. Maybe she is busy or what I don't know.
Thank you dear. That means so much. Same here.
Thanks again.. I guess it's just one of those things. I am sure I will feel better in time.
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