Rush!~!

[dragonfly52585]

Ok I have 5 mins to get somthing on here.. I am gonna make a list of things that have happened to me in the last week, it has been a busy one and I haven't had time or the energy to do much... here goes
~I was sick all week, just now getting over it
~We gave Ebony away. she learned to climb the fence and we couldn't keep her in the yard
~Me and toby

Comments

[away_she_flew]

I'm sorry about the whole baby thing. I have to tell you though, to watch out about it. I mean, maybe he will change his mind, but you have to be aware that he may not. I have friends (older friends) who have never had kids, and she has always wanted them but he hasn't. Finally, after being married 10 years, she went off the pill, but it still affected their relationship, especially sexually, because he didn't want to do anything for fear she get pregnant.
I don't mean to discourage you, and I'm really sorry to hear this, but I wanted to tell you my experience on it. Don't push Toby either on it. Men are really different than women, and maybe it's just because he's only 25 that he doesn't want to have kids yet.
I hope it works out well. And please do post pictures of the kitten!!

[celt_princess7]

Im also sorry to hear about the baby thing and also about how you gave Ebony away. Though I think it's best for her considering it may be dangerous that she can go free. In regards to the baby thing, don't pressure him into anything. Some people are ready for kids in their early/mid twenties...others aren't. Sometimes the thought of being responsible for another human being is frightening. Its not to say Toby is NEVER going to want kids. But right now it's a scary thought to him. Also some people want to wait until their lives are stable. Not implying that yours isn't. But that may be another reason was he's so adament about having kids now. Just give it time