I avoid being artificial, and I've developed the habit of being nice. Also I'm careful to check that someone is at least a bit interested in me before I engage in hot pursuit, which pushes my average up considerably.
Okay, gimme tips, here. I think I've mastered the first bit, but how do you go about that checking, and what form does pursuit take?
I should point out that I can't claim any great expertise, and I certainly can't claim much self-knowledge of how I do all this.
I'm also not entirely sure that I show superhuman levels of success.
> how do you go about that checking
I ask. Usually quite clumsily. Or, sometimes, they ask me first.
> what form does pursuit take?
In my case the pursuit involves showing interest, spending time together, talking, that sort of thing. "Hot pursuit" is like pursuit, but moreso -- more hands-on, for example -- and it's this part of the process that I hold back from unless there's clear evidence that they're interested.
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Okay, gimme tips, here. I think I've mastered the first bit, but how do you go about that checking, and what form does pursuit take?
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I'm also not entirely sure that I show superhuman levels of success.
> how do you go about that checking
I ask. Usually quite clumsily. Or, sometimes, they ask me first.
> what form does pursuit take?
In my case the pursuit involves showing interest, spending time together, talking, that sort of thing. "Hot pursuit" is like pursuit, but moreso -- more hands-on, for example -- and it's this part of the process that I hold back from unless there's clear evidence that they're interested.
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