About Ren

[dotty_at_home]

So I've dreaded posting this. It's painful and I'm not really enough of a masochist that I enjoy rehashing it again

Comments

[dischargie]

I'm very sorry to read that it's not working with Ren but to be honest I was thinking that it wouldn't work after your lasts post. I don't know it's obvious that he would not be honest with his wife, something that is really important for you.

But I'm glad that you have Bill although I know it's not the same.

I had hoped it would work with Ren but I think he first needs to be honest with everyone involved and especially his wife and I hope he understands one day what the biggest issue was him being dishonest with his wife and not the calender.

*hugs*

[morgan_cian]

oh darlin'...man, i had such high hopes that this would work out, i was cheering quietly in the background and now, well, *hugs* even if it is painful i think you've made the right decision, he can only control his actions, can't think of anything else to say except, my shoulder is here for you to lean on, my ears are ready to listen, and my heart is hurting along with you

[hawk_soaring]

*hugs you* I think you've done all that you could really. It's now up to Ren to decide what happens next.

[me_ya_ri]

I'm so sorry to hear this, sweetie. I honestly kind of expected it with all the drama and delays. I do think that you made the right choice. I do hope that he does get a kink friendly counselor to help him work this out because being miserable this way is horrible for anyone.

I've still got my fingers crossed that he'll work things out on his end but I'm afraid I don't have much hope.

*tender hugs* You did the right thing. I really believe that.

[twicet]

He needs to work things out with his wife first, I am sorry for you that he couldn't do that.

*hugs*