Which bit of this sentance did you not understand?

[anthraxia]

"Now for BF2. We started dating 18 months ago, after he'd broken up with his long-term girlfriend (they'd experienced with swinging, she wanted to go back to a traditional monogamous, one-true-love relationship, he didn't - in the end she cheated on him and left). At that time, he didn't know wether poly was for him or not, but he thought it might

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[icecreamempress]

Because they know what the answer is; they just don't want to admit it.

[cuddlycthulhu]

This exactly.

[embryomystic]

Yup.

[pink_pet]

I read a post where a woman said she'd been in a relationship with a guy but it was moving to just a "booty call" situation. She said she was having sex with him and heard a voice in her head that said, "You don't want to be doing this."

After several more paragraphs of detail she asked if we thought she would be happy with being in a "booty call" relationship with him.

The first person to reply actually told her to reread her post!

[cinema_babe]

They want just one person to tell them the opposite of what they already know. Someone to give them permission to take the less healthy/ethical/compassionate/etc path.

[catness]

This.

[treasadreaming]

Yep.

[paper_crystals]

Yes, I try to catch myself when I am writing a post like that.

[elfstartwinkle]

A good question to ask is "What would you say to a friend in this situation?"

Well, I said it

[redbird]

I told her to break up with him, and speculated on the possibility of them being friends afterwards.