If you are still living together and still having sex and still trying to talk about your feelings YOU AREN'T BROKEN UP. You are in a horrible relationship and possibly the cause of a drama hurricane.
Why am I not surprised that this clusterfuck is back? Could it be because one of her GFs posted this just a little while ago? When I saw that I had a feeling that more post would follow.
I can't imagine this merry dance ending without a lot of people ending up even more fucked up than they already are.
No, s/he (I don't remember which pronoun the poster prefers) usually tries to explain. I don't think the poster is trying to be a drama llama--I think that it's more a case of someone with very few resources working things out in the entirely wrong forum. So although I'm amused by the constant trainwreckiness, I actually have some good will for these folks, because I think it's cluelessness rather than entitlement that's at the heart of their problems.
I think what's actually at the heart of the problem is that none of them are willing to actually let go. Seriously. I understand that it might be hard for them to do (one of them has a kid, right? I can't remember if this is the same broken triad as the one who posted a few months ago), but that's their main issue. None of them can get any fucking distance to get some clarity or seem to really want to. Sometimes relationships just end and they don't seem to want to actually recognize that.
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Sometimes you need a couple's counselor and an editor.
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Fixed that for ya.
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I saw that comment in combination with your icon and began fervently praying that you didn't, in fact, love this turnip.
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I actually feel really really bad for this trio. They clearly have serious problems and don't have two clues to rub together. I hope they get help.
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I can't imagine this merry dance ending without a lot of people ending up even more fucked up than they already are.
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It boggles the mind.
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They could add another victim partner, or worse, a baby!
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