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dofaye

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Dec 30, 2009 02:02

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One of these days, I'll learn to stop saying and doing things I'll regret. Perhaps I'm too focused on my goals for my own good.

...On the other hand, perhaps I just need to be more selective about the kind of company I keep.

I don't want to lose him. As a friend, that is.

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[Filtered] lavenderglasses December 30 2009, 07:52:51 UTC

I wouldn't say anything unless I was sure it was the truth. Even a slight possibility that it might be a lie is too much - it would only cause pain in the end.

But...I've regretted not saying something because of that cautiousness. Maybe you don't have anything to regret, really.

[Filtered] dofaye December 30 2009, 08:51:43 UTC

Regardless of how true it is, it's already been said. And has already caused pain, for that matter.

I do wish it was that simple.

[Filtered] lavenderglasses December 30 2009, 19:02:42 UTC

Then what do you expect to do about it? If nothing can be done, then wallowing in regret is just a waste of time. You'd be better off trying to get over it as quickly as possible.

[Filtered] dofaye December 31 2009, 00:44:30 UTC

"Get over it"? Do you mean to say that I shouldn't try to mend the problem?

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[Filtered] donttelldaddy December 30 2009, 09:48:32 UTC

I have no regrets about anything.

But why regret something that could be true, if you thought before that it wasn't? I imagine it would be a relief.

[Filtered] dofaye December 30 2009, 11:19:16 UTC

That's quite enviable.

The problem is that I'm no longer sure that I wish it to be true. ...I apologize; I'm probably being too ambiguous for you to be of any help.

[Filtered] donttelldaddy December 30 2009, 11:23:15 UTC

That's not to say I've never done anything I shouldn't have. But now I won't do it again. If you learn from your mistakes, you shouldn't regret them.

You are. Care to elaborate?

[Filtered] dofaye December 30 2009, 23:34:17 UTC

I hope someday I'll be able to say the same thing. Look back at this and laugh, as they say.

Mmm, well. A friend of mine overheard something negative I said about him, and he seems to have disowned me. My first instinct is to apologize, but maybe it's better this way.

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[Filtered] hatesafrica December 30 2009, 16:32:08 UTC

Having a problem?

[Filtered] dofaye December 30 2009, 21:51:35 UTC

Well, yes. An internal debate, of sorts.

[Filtered] hatesafrica December 31 2009, 03:20:37 UTC

Care to enlighten me?

[Filtered] dofaye December 31 2009, 03:26:46 UTC

To put things simply, I said something cruel to a friend. I meant to apologize but I'm unsure if it's true or not.

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