42 days until the wedding!  Which really means, um, let's see... it's really more like 40 (FOR-TY DAYS-EESE DAYS-EESE!!!) since we'll be camping starting on Thursday.  I think that's good, though.  Being onsite for a day or so ahead of time is bound to relax us.  And we've moved the ceremony time a bit later to accommodate folks driving in for the ( Read more... )

so, back in the '80s, I met this amazing guy.  we moved in together, and eventually got married.

no, he wasn't gay, although I did have a (still much beloved) gay bf, before that.  we were married for 14 years, and together for a few years before.  eventually we grew apart and decided to go our separate ways.  (awesomely, we're still friends!)

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another pride weekend has come and gone, and I have to say that while they are all the same in many ways, it is also very true that no two are ever quite alike ( Read more... )

so I've just emerged from nearly an entire week of back pain - and let me tell you, I am going to the goddamn GYM just as soon as I feel back to 100%!

I'm 43. I don't feel old. nevertheless, I've thrown my back out twice in the past couple of years (although never before that). so even though this second episode isn't as severe as last time it' ( Read more... )

just about to head off to bed... today we loaded up the van and set up at Moscone Center for Wondercon which runs through Sunday. we are in booth #735 (near Capcom, which has a huge overhead banner). come say hi, we would love to see you ( Read more... )

so friday night I did my first party - not through the new agency, this was giving informal, free (and untimed) readings at a friend's small gathering. most of the folks I read for were people I know, although I'd never met a few of them before. it went REALLY well, and confirmed for me that I am on the right track now ( Read more... )

well I guess it's about time to post about this ( Read more... )

well, talk about your dualities/union of the opposites. heh ( Read more... )

so, the more time I spend around this sweet little dog, the more convinced I become that he really was abandoned rather than just being lost. (and FUCK the people who would do that ( Read more... )

really... wow. that was just amazing!!!! I'm delighted ( Read more... )