Comments | djmermaid: wish I had a river I could skate away on

djmermaid

wish I had a river I could skate away on

Dec 12, 2008 20:44

oh god, it's 12/12 again. I did pretty well for most of the day, but there's just no getting past the knowing that this was the day Allison died. it didn't help that when I posted about this elsewhere, someone saw fit to msg me offlist to tell me that "people" still think it was intentional. maybe they know better than the coroner, maybe not. * ( Read more... )

allison, meh, holidays

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djmermaid December 13 2008, 21:31:48 UTC

thank you, much appreciated.

Rough day cherryterror December 13 2008, 07:03:48 UTC

Sorry this month has been so rough. It will be better in the new year. Big hug.

Re: Rough day djmermaid December 13 2008, 21:32:12 UTC

thank you. big hug back! looking forward to your show.

idiva December 13 2008, 15:35:13 UTC

oh sweetie pie, i'm so sorry it sucks.
*hugs*

djmermaid December 13 2008, 21:32:53 UTC

thanks, hugs right back. looking forward to seeing you two @ twigs!

Hey darlin... evilmommytina December 13 2008, 17:54:33 UTC

* put up your tree
* love yourself
* set aside time to remember her in a joyful place

LIVE WELL.

She would have insisted on it that way.

HUGS.

Tina

Re: Hey darlin... djmermaid December 13 2008, 21:34:33 UTC

you're right. that's excellent advice which I will do my best to follow.

HUGS back to you! hey BTW I want to introduce you to some friends of mine who live up in your neck of the woods... they're really great folks. look out for an email from me soon.

silverfae December 13 2008, 20:40:13 UTC

Start with one little ornament. It'll look so lonely and forlorn that you'll have to put up another to keep it company..
and then just let your obsessive personality take over and soon you'll wonder what took you so long to get in the mood to do the tree. :0

and hugs... lotsa hugs your way!

djmermaid December 13 2008, 21:31:20 UTC

yeah... the thing is, we have to assemble the "tree" first... and I can't really do it myself. so, we'll see. I do have a naked photo of Bettie Page wearing a santa hat and decorating a tree on the fridge so that's a start (it'll go on the "tree" if we do manage to set it up... it's made of those wire shelves and it's a non-trivial task). but we always have pix of absent friends on it, so I'll move Ms Page over if we do it.

thanks for the hugs! always appreciated.