The Smile and The Nod

[dissonant_honey]

I was wheeling a small cart of tubs of dips and salsas I'd just made, from the kitchen out to the wall where I'd neatly stack them, and this guy who was shopping there looked at me

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[poeticalpanther]

if I focussed more on unlearning my male habits than on studying the habits and behaviors of women,

This is exactly the first piece of advice I give anyone on transition mtf - it's not the same for ftm, I believe. It's not about appearing feminine; it's about not appearing masculine. Glad you've found it too, and it's working for you. :)

[dissonant_honey]

yeah. it is. finally.
thank you.

I'm trying to work on more accessible for others posts/essays, and maybe even some stand up routine stuff.
Your input is welcome. Just the fact you responded so quickly gladdens my heart.
many hugs.

[livlyredhead]

I will always flirt with you cutie.... you can't EVER stop that *bats eyelashes*

[dissonant_honey]

yeah. but you're a girl, and I'm a dyke with a boyfriend. your flirtations are welcome.
hehheh...

[zanawake]

[reads]
[smiles]
[nods]

I love this piece of writing! Thank you for posting it.
Congratulations on your arrival!

[dissonant_honey]

Thanks, honey.
I'm not sure if you know how much your arrival in my life has helped me towards this point.
Lets have a long time coming of more arrivals, and adventures, okay?
I love you.
<3

[shullie]

wonderful, thanks for writing and posting xxx

[dissonant_honey]

thanks. I'm glad that you're still reading. I'm really pleased with this one.
I'm wondering if there are akita rescuers in Louisiana.
and dammit, you stuck with the blonde, and it looks great! and i'm just brown and gray (and about twenty other colors in the pony tail from various experiments)

hugs you
xxx