I'm not really your friend, but I went through the same thing with my ex and it took a year before she finally stopped telling me we'd be together again and that she wanted to be good friends. It was right about the time she got engaged and decided she didn't need me as a backup. So yeah, I say ditch him if possible, unless you see becoming friends as something realistic.
From being in a similar situation, and with the understanding of how cliche this will sound, Things Will Get Better. To continue with a relationship will be hard. Until one day when you come to the realization that you don't love him anymore. You will realize that that the both of you are differnt, you both have grown, and it's for the better. Or maybe not.I won't, however, say that it's not scary. It is heartwrentching. Everything has some sort of reason, a metaphorical resemblance of some sort. Don't ask about other girls. You want to know every little detail, until you actually know. Sometimes you'll tell yourself it's okay, and know it's really not. But one day, you'll wake up and everything really will be okay. Yes, it is possible for things to happen overnight.
Things are differnt for diffent people in differnt situations. This is just what I've gained from personal experience.
I love you, and I'm always here for huffing/puffing/ranting/raving/crying and what not. Eventually, it will be okay. I promise.
No, it's because as soon as I open my mouth I get taken off, not about having a username on my profile.
&it wasn't the entries, it was you.
Maybe you don't quite get it - it wasn't an 'i hate you' type thing. It's a - I hate what you've become &reading yr entries pains me because of what you're going through. &I wish you could get through it because you were such a happy, spastic girl. Hell, I took myself off yr list before you even did by not reading because it depessed me. I figured that whenever you came back around &got through all this, I'd be able to read again.
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To continue with a relationship will be hard. Until one day when you come to the realization that you don't love him anymore. You will realize that that the both of you are differnt, you both have grown, and it's for the better. Or maybe not.I won't, however, say that it's not scary. It is heartwrentching. Everything has some sort of reason, a metaphorical resemblance of some sort.
Don't ask about other girls. You want to know every little detail, until you actually know.
Sometimes you'll tell yourself it's okay, and know it's really not. But one day, you'll wake up and everything really will be okay. Yes, it is possible for things to happen overnight.
Things are differnt for diffent people in differnt situations.
This is just what I've gained from personal experience.
I love you, and I'm always here for huffing/puffing/ranting/raving/crying and what not.
Eventually, it will be okay. I promise.
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Real fuckin' lame, I expected more from you.
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i`m sorry, but if my entries bothered you that much i really think it was for the best that you couldn`t read it.
no offense, personally.
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&it wasn't the entries, it was you.
Maybe you don't quite get it - it wasn't an 'i hate you' type thing. It's a - I hate what you've become &reading yr entries pains me because of what you're going through. &I wish you could get through it because you were such a happy, spastic girl. Hell, I took myself off yr list before you even did by not reading because it depessed me. I figured that whenever you came back around &got through all this, I'd be able to read again.
But I guess that didn't work, either.
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