I think there's definitely a lot of insecurity on his part and maybe to a certain extent he's unsure where all of this is going himself. I think you should umm go with the flow? Though, now that I'm thinking about it again, it'd be easier if you talk to him again BUT as guys go, they don't want to talk. They want to chase. So play hard to get. He'll come and find you and realise what he's missing.
The problem is that we've been friends for 7 years now and we have some the same friends in common. I'm afraid of taking the next step, because if he rejects me, I won't be able to hang out with our group of friends :/
oooh dear that is a big problem. i had a recent problem as well with my friend of 10 years but she decided to call the whole thing off. as much as i'm saddened by it, i think it is the easier way out in saving our friendship. i really think you should proceed with caution. if the two of you can be adults about it when things go bad, i say go for it. but if you think either one of you is not going to take it well better end things now before they escalate further.
at least i'm doing a different MA course, so i don't see him everyday. the worst thing is that he acts sort of liek house. i never know whether his 'you're the one i want' is serious or he's jsut kidding. like few months ago, we were sitting in my car and he kinda moved towards me, to which i giggled a bit. and then, witha big grin on his face he said that he was planning to kiss me, but since i laughed, i could forget about it. :/
the problem is that i'm too shy to talk about my feelings. i'm not the heartbreaker type, if anything i'm the heartbroken. i guess he is one too, so neither of us wants to make our feelings obvious :(
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Though, now that I'm thinking about it again, it'd be easier if you talk to him again BUT as guys go, they don't want to talk. They want to chase. So play hard to get. He'll come and find you and realise what he's missing.
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i really think you should proceed with caution. if the two of you can be adults about it when things go bad, i say go for it. but if you think either one of you is not going to take it well better end things now before they escalate further.
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the worst thing is that he acts sort of liek house. i never know whether his 'you're the one i want' is serious or he's jsut kidding.
like few months ago, we were sitting in my car and he kinda moved towards me, to which i giggled a bit. and then, witha big grin on his face he said that he was planning to kiss me, but since i laughed, i could forget about it.
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sorry to hear about you and your friend :(
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i guess he is one too, so neither of us wants to make our feelings obvious :(
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