It's hard to make new friends when you're an adult because everyone has had enough time to develop such terrible personalities.
lolol, this is the truest statement ever to be written on the internet. IT IS SO TRUE. PEOPLE ARE AWFUL AND HARD TO TALK TO AND JUST GENERALLY TERRIBLE.
your food sounds AMAZING though and I'm glad the pies turned out all right. ♥
People seriously get so awful! AH! I have had so many conversations with people about this -- like, now that we're adults, how are we ever going to make new friends? how does ANYONE make new friends when they're not in university???? And then I meet new people (I've already met this girl a number of times, but never hung out for so long) and I'm like PEOPLE ARE THE WORST. Like, even worse than the people I already know. So. That's not going to happen.
Food was good though! Especially the happy surprise of the stuffing turning out, when really I just made it on a notion and a hunch, lol. YAY FOR PIE! That's what I'm going to have for dinner tonight, :D
its so awful, like when you get even older (LIKE ME) not only do you have a hard time making new grownup friends but you're forced into new awful situations ie: being forced to be friends with someone because they are the partner of your partners friend, as well as realizing that your OLD friends who might not be terrible you now have NOTHING in common with so you're stuck with like, old friends who are around just because they've always been and new friends youre forced to hang out with
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Basically you and Rachel keep telling me that my life is going to get worse and I want to remind you once again that I was ALMOST PAST THIS CRISIS OVER TURNING 26, STOP TEMPTING ME TO BACKSLIDE. It's been a lot of months without vacuuming before I pulled it together for a strong October.
Fandom people are the best when that actually works out! fitofpique is almost more of a rl friend than a fandom friend because she actively reviles my fandom choices, but it's SO AWESOME to have someone who just understands all your references. Like, someone who knows what sad but not "If You Are Prepared" sad means (IT MEANS THAT ONE DAY YOU WILL GET OVER IT, UNLIKE IF YOU ARE PREPARED SAD WHICH IS A NEVERENDING SADNESS).
But there's a bit of a shortage in fandom people who live in the right cities, siiiiiigh.
Oh man your food looks SO GOOD. And I've gone my whole life eating vegetarian stuffing alongside (or cooked inside) birds, I never knew you could make it with PORK! Daaaamn. My favourite stuffings involve sage, pine nuts, and apple. AND BREAD SOAKED IN BUTTER. THAT PART IS PRETTY GREAT. Good for you making your own pies, wow!
I feel you on the alone time/people time balance. Having a kitty does make everything better. Look at his bellyyyyyyyy ♥
It was pretty good! And the stuffing was great! and I don't know what the hell was up with all the pork sausage in stuffing recipes, because we never had it that way growing up either. Maybe it's just trendy on the food blogs this season? But, yeah, CAN'T GO WRONG WITH BREAK SOAKED IN BUTTER, SHOCKINGLY, :D (I diiiiiiiiiiiiid just buy froze pie crusts? So... I only kind of made my own pies, /o\)
Having a kitty helps so much! I bought a bag for my lap top and he is like YES FINALLY THE CAT BED I HAVE ALWAYS DREAMED OF. So, you know. Bellyyyyyyyyyy.
oh gosh i feel bad but I AM ACTUALLY SO RELIEVED at your alone time dysfunctions since i am the exact. same. way. and i've been going crazy over it since i love living alone and i'm a nightmare roommate, but then there's those long stretches where i go off the rails a little in ways that i wouldn't when i was living with my family? like i feel so superior when i see "How To Be Alone" stuff but then i can't get anyone to come over for a couple days too many and i end up embarrassing myself while buying cigarettes because i got a bit too drunk at 5:45pm for no good reason and the dishes pile up for a week and the laundry for two and feeling like time is endless and there is no meaning in the world, yeeeep. and now my friends have so much power over my emotional state! and everybody's busy all the time so it's pretty brutal when the rare hangouts don't go very well. it's frustrating since i'm still in my shitty hometown so i should at least feel grounded, right? i don't even know. lol, not to try to make everything about me or anything
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Dude, for realz!! I feel like I'm really good at being alone BUT ALSO I FALL APART? So I don't know, contradictions are confusing? Umm, smoking because you're shockingly drunk at 5:45 pm (... or... like 4, whatever, time is hard) is the story of my life, I don't understand how it is possible to live alone and not be drunk all the time. It's really rough to feel like you're dependent on other people not to fall into a pit of filth and existential angst but. I think we're okay? I think it's normal to need to see people at least every 48 hours? I don't know? But I am going to validate us? It can totally be about you because it's weird and confusing to figure out how to live alone, but you are awesome. *nods
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i fantasise about living alone, and just being my worst possible self, instead of always feeling the pressure to be a good example of human-ness and not fucking m kids up too much. so basically i smiled through most of this post. &you;
I can't even imagine the pressure of having to hold it together for kids. Sometimes I can feel my cat judging me and I think -- Laura, you can never have children. You are making magic happen by being a mother, ♥
well, none of us are robots, so it's not like we're always perfect humans. but it's definitely a different perspective to approach things with i guess. ;)
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lolol, this is the truest statement ever to be written on the internet. IT IS SO TRUE. PEOPLE ARE AWFUL AND HARD TO TALK TO AND JUST GENERALLY TERRIBLE.
your food sounds AMAZING though and I'm glad the pies turned out all right. ♥
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Food was good though! Especially the happy surprise of the stuffing turning out, when really I just made it on a notion and a hunch, lol. YAY FOR PIE! That's what I'm going to have for dinner tonight, :D
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Fandom people are the best when that actually works out! fitofpique is almost more of a rl friend than a fandom friend because she actively reviles my fandom choices, but it's SO AWESOME to have someone who just understands all your references. Like, someone who knows what sad but not "If You Are Prepared" sad means (IT MEANS THAT ONE DAY YOU WILL GET OVER IT, UNLIKE IF YOU ARE PREPARED SAD WHICH IS A NEVERENDING SADNESS).
But there's a bit of a shortage in fandom people who live in the right cities, siiiiiigh.
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I feel you on the alone time/people time balance. Having a kitty does make everything better. Look at his bellyyyyyyyy ♥
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Having a kitty helps so much! I bought a bag for my lap top and he is like YES FINALLY THE CAT BED I HAVE ALWAYS DREAMED OF. So, you know. Bellyyyyyyyyyy.
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