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detonate_for_me

Secrets/Questions

Jul 06, 2006 09:25

haleyos, monsterofmud and falfax have all done this recently. I thought I'd jump on the bandwagon.

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Comments 13

anonymous July 6 2006, 14:37:33 UTC

detonate_for_me July 6 2006, 14:56:58 UTC

Everyone has experiences like that, where they look back and wish they'd done something differently. At least you protested and didn't join in. You let the person know you didn't approve of what s/he was doing, and that means something.

Next time something like that happens, you'll know what to do.

anonymous July 6 2006, 14:41:38 UTC

detonate_for_me July 6 2006, 14:50:48 UTC

Self-doubt... yeah. I had a couple of similar experiences. I don't think your imagination would play a trick like THAT on you.

I'm having trouble with this. I've typed and deleted about 10 sentences. None of them sounded right.

It is indeed a very difficult issue to reconcile. I'm sorry and I know what you're going through. Or trying not to go through.

anonymous July 6 2006, 14:46:04 UTC

detonate_for_me July 6 2006, 15:08:47 UTC

I wouldn't be disgusted. I don't think your friends would be, either. At the same time, I understand your reluctance to bring it up especially since it's a non-issue, as you say.

Would it help you to know that I'm in the same boat?

anonymous July 6 2006, 14:50:09 UTC

detonate_for_me July 6 2006, 15:05:43 UTC

The hard truth is that sometimes that shit never gets sorted out. You do what you need to do (not the reprehensible thing). You need to take care of yourself. Don't stick around if it's dead. You know deep down whether it is or not.

anonymous July 6 2006, 15:06:28 UTC

Whatevever.

That's funny.

detonate_for_me July 6 2006, 15:09:55 UTC

Fixed it. Jerk.